I am used to be active in the nerd community. While pregnant I couldn't endure the long drive back and forth to go. Now that the twins are here.. I can't go out because I don't want to drag them around in the cold. The places aren't very baby friendly either so I don't want to impose on people. I don't sleep nearly enough to use brain cells to do projects at home.
My husband and I toggle the babies off. The days he works I take them. On his days off he takes them. He doesn't like the idea of sleeping shifts while working cause he is "too tired.."