If your LO is on one nap, how do you decide when to put him/her down, especially if he/she is an early riser? My LO wakes up between 6-6:30am, so the nap is usually around 11:30am when I'd like it to be closer to 12:30pm. 6 hours of awake time seems like a lot though, and then we'd have a shorter amount of awake time before bed (7pm) so it seems uneven. If LO could sleep in a little later problem solved, but that doesn't seem to be in the cards.
Also, b/c of the trickiness of feeding lunch before vs. after, I've been cutting out a midday bottle so he just has a morning bottle and bedtime bottle (about 15 oz total), plus a 4 oz yogurt. Is that enough milk/calcium?
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Re: One Nap Schedule Question + Milk Question
We are pretty much on the same schedule as you, excpet Abby does wait to go down for a nap until 12:30. Some days it's not easy to get her to wait until 12:30, but we just get her preoccupied the best that we can. We typically give her lunch at noon.
As far as the milk goes, she basically gets one bottle at 6:30am, one at noon with lunch, and a little at 3ish with snack, and one at dinner at 6pm. So I would say 3-4 bottles and average about 15oz a day of milk.
I stopped worry about "hours awake" a long time ago. When he was littler he always seemed to be much less able to stay awake as long as most babies his age (so he'd need a nap every hour, while most could go 1.5). I just have always gone off of his attitude. When he seemed tired, cranky, clumsy, I'd put him down for a nap. Now he lets me know when he's ready for a nap, so it seems to have worked out well. I don't have a nap fighter, I have a child who knows when he needs sleep and is happy to get there.
During the week, he's usually up around 6:30 and has a nap at daycare at 12:30. For the longest time that did not fly at home. In fact, once we tried to keep him up till 12:30 and he fell asleep in his lunch. So at home, we'd put him down earlier than that.
On the weekends lately he's been sleeping in till 7:30/8, so now his naps tend to be 12:30/1ish.
Can't help with the milk - I still nurse twice a day, so I don't worry about his calcium intake. He does get 2 cups of milk a day in addition to that though.