::Nittany::

missyishere

How is your step father? Have you and DH been able to talk? You've been missing since voicing your concerns. I hope all is well.

CMonkey515

You've been in my thoughts too, Nittany. I hope all is well.

kagl08

I was wondering where you were too! Hope everything's ok! 

nittanyllama

Aww thank you guys for thinking of me. I'm doing ok. My stepdad was really lucky, he only has a broken foot after a 15 ton crane was set down on him. He wears special boots which saved his foot from being crushed and amputated. As far as MH I still don't know. I had a colossal melt down Sunday night and we finally had a decent talk. He still insists nothing happened and it was just J joking around. He kind of admitted he coukd see why i was so concerned but he still doesnt realky think any of it is a big deal. My gut still tells me something isn't right but I'm not really sure where to go from here. I checked phone records and there's nothing weird. We had a serious talk about why I don't trust him and he seems to want to work on it but it will take time. I hate that its so gray, i dont have proof that he cheated, but i just dont feel good about it. I feel like I kind of have to let it go for now and just keep an eye out. I don't know. But thanks again for the support ladies. It just sucks.

nittanyllama

PS if anyone remembers or wondered I am also the one who posted a few months ago about MH's drinking habits. He was actually really receptive to a conversation about the issue and he really seems to have cut back and doesn't drink when alone with G anymore. It's another issue that's not exactly resolved but it seems a lot better.

I really make MH sound like a winner on here. I guess I just feel like this is the only place I can vent about him because I don't want to vent to family or friends IRL. It's obviously not all bad with MH but we have some work to do. I just feel so confused still.

missyishere

NittanyMama:

PS if anyone remembers or wondered I am also the one who posted a few months ago about MH's drinking habits. He was actually really receptive to a conversation about the issue and he really seems to have cut back and doesn't drink when alone with G anymore. It's another issue that's not exactly resolved but it seems a lot better.

I really make MH sound like a winner on here. I guess I just feel like this is the only place I can vent about him because I don't want to vent to family or friends IRL. It's obviously not all bad with MH but we have some work to do. I just feel so confused still.

Glad to hear your SD is good. How scary! I hope your husband continues to understand where you're coming from and stops the inappropriate relationship he presented with his coworker.