Heading into the new year, out of the last 8 years (2004-2009 minus time for one sucessful pregnancy) and 6 months this year, I've spent over 5 of them TTCing. We heading into year #6 total. I hope we don't have to move to year #7. I know there are others who have been through a lot worse, I guess it was just a huge realization for me. IF sucks. Here's to wishing for a great new year and lots of BFPs for everyone here!

Re: It just hit me today!
I don't know if you heard what we did from most everyone after we had our daughter "we'll you know that you have been prego the next will just come" I love their optimism but it took all my strength not to slap them. I knew that wouldn't be our experience but I heard it so much I started to believe it.
Lucky 13 is our year!