I would like to hear how other AP mamas approached difficult sleeping habits with their older babies. LO was a decent sleeper as a young infant, but by 8 months he was starting to refuse to go back to sleep in his crib after waking, etc. Now at 1 year after months of multiple night wakings and bed sharing out of necessity, he typically sleeps for 1-3 hour stretches after being nursed/rocked to sleep and often refuses to go back in his crib after 1-3 am. I really do like bed sharing, but I'd rather not before 5 am or so because I get so uncomfortable lying in the same position for hours.I know it's normal for babies to still wake at this age, but getting it down to 1-2 night feedings/wakings would be nice...
Anyway, I really don't want to do CIO, which I've always been against, but it is becoming challenging having very little time alone with my husband, let alone such broken sleep. So if you were in a similar situation, did you do any kind of sleep training? What worked to help your LO sleep better?
Re: 1 year old hates sleeping alone
DH refused to cosleep from the beginning, but after a virus at 10m that woke him several times a night for 2 weeks, DS1 refused to go to sleep without nursing or cosleeping, even after the virus was gone. We ended up doing it in his bed (yes, I climbed in the crib). Usually just having me there was enough to calm him, but oftentimes he wouldn't fall asleep until nursed. Once he fell asleep I'd go back to our bed & everyone was happy, though tired. We moved him to a toddler bed at 15m, and from then until now (at 2.5 he's in a twin bed) hewill come to our room in the middle of the night a couple of times a week, so we go back to his room & I lay with him until he falls asleep and again return to my room. I couldn't let him CIO, but with DH refusing to cosleep, this was the solution that has worked best for us.
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It's comforting to know I'm not alone. I keep seeing posts on Facebook about all the hours people's 3 month olds are sleeping and I'm a little jealous ... but then I remember E slept 6-8 hours straight (briefly) at that age too. I thought we had an easy one, lol!
I have just started reading the No Cry Sleep Solution.