Heartbroken

snichols0031

ok guys so I know that i just posted my first message on here earlier this evening, but my husband dropped a bombshell on me tonight.

after over a year of TTC, and MD appts, and now starting Clomid, my husband tells me that he doesn't think he wants to have another child!!!! I was floored!! He said that he knew that it was something that I wanted so he just went along with it! I feel like I have been lied to, I feel this huge loss of something that I thought we were working on together. I can't really do anything but cry. It is like 1:30am here so I can't call my sister, so I decided to come here. I AM SOO PISSED right now! I don't really know what to think.

any words of advice would be appreciated. 

e74

I'm so sorry!  I don't have any words of advice.  

DaisyZH

I'm sorry, that is really tough.  Is it possible that he is overwhelmed by the TTC process and needs a little break to re-group and re-connect with you and your LO?  I know it can be stressful, and we haven't even started any type of testing or treatment yet. 

(( Hugs )) I'm sorry that you're having such a rough night, I hope you get in touch with your sister and that that helps some. 

74dragonfly

DaisyZH:

I'm sorry, that is really tough.nbsp; Is it possible that he is overwhelmed by the TTC process and needs a little break to regroup and reconnect with you and your LO?

This. I think you should give it a few days and when you both are feeling calmer discuss again.