DTD

nycgirl88

Has anyone else not DTD? DS slept with us until he was 8 weeks old so it wasn't happening then I took off to my parents with DS when he was 10.5 weeks without DH for a week.

We tried once in between that timeframe but it was uncomfortable and we had to stop. Now we are at my IL's until New Years Eve!!

 I love sex, so I feel bad for not making it happen. DH hasn't even asked once. I also am not on the pill because of early supply issues so we would need to use condoms which DH hates. I think I need to just get back in the saddle again and stop making excuses! 

Anyone else in my boat?  

hboo2011

We've had sex a few times so not in your boat but what about the nuvaring? It's a lowerdose hormone so may not affect your supply like a pill may.

ChrisG83

We haven't even once! I am still bleeding and DH doesn't dig that at all so we are waiting. Honestly I have never ever had a huge sex drive so it's not horrible for me.

daronsmommy

10 weeks today and still haven't. I have no desire to. And until DH gets a vasectomy I'm scared to. I was on BC when I got PG both times.

danienross

DH is deployed until August so no sex happenening here. Needless to say I'm dreading that first time.

candaceleigh21

We havent either!  I havent had my first PP period so I cannot start my BCP and I refuse to use condoms because..well..they suck and I CANNOT risk one breaking.  I would cry if I got pregnant again right now.  I kind of thought I would have started by now since I am EFF but I guess we will wait and see. 

senoritabella

Just do it!
Swoosh

RockyRoad3

We finally did last night.  It lasted like four seconds because it had been so long and my hubby couldn't hold it!  I was on top so I could control everything (though I usually am anyway).  It was definitely uncomfortable but I think a lot of that was because I was so anxious about it hurting, that I think I made it worse.

rakle99

We havent. My stitches are still in and we are both stir crazy from it.

blackcat3163

I think we have 3 or 4 times... it's getting better. First time was rough last time was great... get back on that horse... neiighhhh hahaha

nycgirl88

meganole25:

Someone's quite the postaholic today : I kid, I kid.We didn't DTD until I was 12 weeks PP. We had tried once around 8 weeks PP and it did not work. We've only done it one other times since.I suck as a wife.nbsp;

DS is 12 weeks so I don't feel too bad now ha ha!!
And I may have posted 3 things whoops!! I am at my IL's feeding London in the bedroom so we can have quiet time...aka mom bumping time :

gregNamanda

I'm glad to read this post. We tried once so far and it hurt. We couldn't finish. Poor DH. I didn't think it would hurt since I had a c-section but I was wrong. Guess things get a lil rusty lol.

expectingnugget

I just got Paraguard today and even that was painful, so I'm dreading the real thing. Luckily, I have to wait 2 weeks for it to kick in! Also, someone mentioned not liking the pill because the hormones affected BF'ing. Paraguard has no hormones whatsoever, so try that!

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expectingnugget:

I just got Paraguard today and even that was painful, so I'm dreading the real thing. Luckily, I have to wait 2 weeks for it to kick in! Also, someone mentioned not liking the pill because the hormones affected BF'ing. Paraguard has no hormones whatsoever, so try that!

You don't have to wait for it to kick in FYI it's effective immediately.

Starry Again

If you have interest, I say just embrace the fact it will suck. I was terrified and it wasn't very good at all, but each time it has gotten better.  

AnotherPreggo

8 week PP here and nope.. nothing!  Still kind of waiting on an area to heal from my tear sooo yeah...