UO Thursday

ChrisG83

RVASC811:

With the exception of sports apparel and ironic baby onesies, , I think clothing with words is really stupid. I especially hate baby/kid clothes that say things like: Diva Princess Future insert sport star Mommy's Little Monster LO has a few things that say, "Mommy's Little Cupcake" and "Grandma Loves Me," which I didn't buy, but those don't bother me as much as the ones that label your baby's personality.

Ashley was given a onesie that says "if you think I'm cute you should see my mommy" I could never put her in it cause then I think people will look at me and think She is not a cute mom at all.  

blackcat3163

ChrisG83:

RVASC811:

With the exception of sports apparel and ironic baby onesies, , I think clothing with words is really stupid. I especially hate baby/kid clothes that say things like: Diva Princess Future insert sport star Mommy's Little Monster LO has a few things that say, "Mommy's Little Cupcake" and "Grandma Loves Me," which I didn't buy, but those don't bother me as much as the ones that label your baby's personality.

Ashley was given a onesie that says "if you think I'm cute you should see my mommy" I could never put her in it cause then I think people will look at me and think She is not a cute mom at all.  

I absolutely hate sayings on clothes but sure enough it's all people buy L...he's rocking away in the swing right now in a "little rebel" shirt... geezzz

bellre

RockyRoad3:

hboo2011:

I think cosleeping is weird. Unless there is a medical condition that the baby will not sleep anywhere but on me, this will never happen in our house. Our bed is the only place for 'us'. Even the dogs aren't allowed there. Which is crazy bc I am a crazy dog person. But, I appreciate my space.

Along these same lines, I don't understand why so many babies sleep in the same room as the parents.  I don't get all these questions about transitioning to room/crib/out of RnP.  Aria has been in her room, in her crib, since day one.   

Good for you for having a separate room for DD...but some babies sleep in the same room as their parents because they just don't have room anywhere else. Until we can buy a 4 bedroom house, DS is in our room. And I love it. But kuddos to you for having no problems with your daughter sleeping in her own room & crib. 

RockyRoad3

bellre:

RockyRoad3:

hboo2011:

I think cosleeping is weird. Unless there is a medical condition that the baby will not sleep anywhere but on me, this will never happen in our house. Our bed is the only place for 'us'. Even the dogs aren't allowed there. Which is crazy bc I am a crazy dog person. But, I appreciate my space.

Along these same lines, I don't understand why so many babies sleep in the same room as the parents.  I don't get all these questions about transitioning to room/crib/out of RnP.  Aria has been in her room, in her crib, since day one.   

Good for you for having a separate room for DD...but some babies sleep in the same room as their parents because they just don't have room anywhere else. Until we can buy a 4 bedroom house, DS is in our room. And I love it. But kuddos to you for having no problems with your daughter sleeping in her own room & crib. 

I honestly can't tell if you're being snarky.  Regardless, obviously I'm not talking about people who don't have space for the baby to be elsewhere. 

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RockyRoad3:

hboo2011:

I think cosleeping is weird. Unless there is a medical condition that the baby will not sleep anywhere but on me, this will never happen in our house. Our bed is the only place for 'us'. Even the dogs aren't allowed there. Which is crazy bc I am a crazy dog person. But, I appreciate my space.

Along these same lines, I don't understand why so many babies sleep in the same room as the parents.  I don't get all these questions about transitioning to room/crib/out of RnP.  Aria has been in her room, in her crib, since day one.   

Maybe because studies show that co-sleeping (not bed sharing, which is what the PP is referring to I think, there's a difference) reduces the chance of SIDS, especially between 2-4 months? Maybe because the parents just like having their baby close by? Why do you care?

Maybe my UO is I think it's shittty to judge people who bed share/co-sleep but not judge people who let their 2 month old CIO. Call me crazy.

bellre

RockyRoad3:

bellre:

RockyRoad3:

hboo2011:

I think cosleeping is weird. Unless there is a medical condition that the baby will not sleep anywhere but on me, this will never happen in our house. Our bed is the only place for 'us'. Even the dogs aren't allowed there. Which is crazy bc I am a crazy dog person. But, I appreciate my space.

Along these same lines, I don't understand why so many babies sleep in the same room as the parents.  I don't get all these questions about transitioning to room/crib/out of RnP.  Aria has been in her room, in her crib, since day one.   

Good for you for having a separate room for DD...but some babies sleep in the same room as their parents because they just don't have room anywhere else. Until we can buy a 4 bedroom house, DS is in our room. And I love it. But kuddos to you for having no problems with your daughter sleeping in her own room & crib. 

I honestly can't tell if you're being snarky.  Regardless, obviously I'm not talking about people who don't have space for the baby to be elsewhere. 

There was definitely some snark in there. It's stupid to be all judgy because some people aren't as blessed as you clearly are with a baby who will sleep on their own with no trouble.  For the first 8 weeks the only way I could get DS to sleep was with me, and I know I'm not alone on that one....THAT is where all the questions/posts about transitioning are probably coming from. Some people actually have to work to get their LO to sleep in their own room/crib. Crazy, I know. 

bellre

MrsNorry:

Maybe because studies show that co-sleeping (not bed sharing, which is what the PP is referring to I think, there's a difference) reduces the chance of SIDS, especially between 2-4 months? Maybe because the parents just like having their baby close by? Why do you care?

Maybe my UO is I think it's shittty to judge people who bed share/co-sleep but not judge people who let their 2 month old CIO. Call me crazy.

 

RockyRoad3

MrsNorry:

RockyRoad3:

hboo2011:

I think cosleeping is weird. Unless there is a medical condition that the baby will not sleep anywhere but on me, this will never happen in our house. Our bed is the only place for 'us'. Even the dogs aren't allowed there. Which is crazy bc I am a crazy dog person. But, I appreciate my space.

Along these same lines, I don't understand why so many babies sleep in the same room as the parents.  I don't get all these questions about transitioning to room/crib/out of RnP.  Aria has been in her room, in her crib, since day one.   

Maybe because studies show that co-sleeping (not bed sharing, which is what the PP is referring to I think, there's a difference) reduces the chance of SIDS, especially between 2-4 months? Maybe because the parents just like having their baby close by? Why do you care?

Maybe my UO is I think it's shittty to judge people who bed share/co-sleep but not judge people who let their 2 month old CIO. Call me crazy.

I don't "care" what other people do; it's no skin off my back if someone decides to co-sleep.  This is called an opinion.  You are making an awful lot of assumptions and jumping to conclusions.  

I'm also not judging people who do it, I just don't agree with it.  Doesn't make others wrong for doing it, and doesn't make me wrong for not.  Again, an opinion.  Learn the difference.  Also, who said anything about letting their baby CIO?  No one.  If you're implying I (or anyone who doesn't co-sleep) lets their baby CIO, that in itself is a sh!tty thing to do.

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LauraT25:

Wait, really? Can someone give me the 411 on the 2 month old CIO? I missed this.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/70837616.aspx

Not the OP, a PP who responded.

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RockyRoad3:

MrsNorry:

RockyRoad3:

hboo2011:

I think cosleeping is weird. Unless there is a medical condition that the baby will not sleep anywhere but on me, this will never happen in our house. Our bed is the only place for 'us'. Even the dogs aren't allowed there. Which is crazy bc I am a crazy dog person. But, I appreciate my space.

Along these same lines, I don't understand why so many babies sleep in the same room as the parents.  I don't get all these questions about transitioning to room/crib/out of RnP.  Aria has been in her room, in her crib, since day one.   

Maybe because studies show that co-sleeping (not bed sharing, which is what the PP is referring to I think, there's a difference) reduces the chance of SIDS, especially between 2-4 months? Maybe because the parents just like having their baby close by? Why do you care?

Maybe my UO is I think it's shittty to judge people who bed share/co-sleep but not judge people who let their 2 month old CIO. Call me crazy.

I don't "care" what other people do; it's no skin off my back if someone decides to co-sleep.  This is called an opinion.  You are making an awful lot of assumptions and jumping to conclusions.  

I'm also not judging people who do it, I just don't agree with it.  Doesn't make others wrong for doing it, and doesn't make me wrong for not.  Again, an opinion.  Learn the difference.  Also, who said anything about letting their baby CIO?  No one.  If you're implying I (or anyone who doesn't co-sleep) lets their baby CIO, that in itself is a sh!tty thing to do.

I wasn't referring to you or anyone else, actually, regarding the CIO. I was referring to the fact that there was a member on this board who said they did it on an earlier thread and no one seemed bothered by it, but bed sharing is "weird".

And sorry, but your comments came off as judgy to me. JMO. You don't "understand" why so many babies sleep in the same room as their parents? Well I don't "understand" why you put your baby in a separate room since birth. 

Vegasbb

I hate Apple computers and think they are inferior to many PCs. I hate the Apple "culture" and people obsessed with their products. I think they are overpriced and people dumb enough to buy them are buying them for the style factor rather than utility. Everyone in my family has one but me and they drive me crazy to use. 

RockyRoad3

I wasn't referring to you or anyone else, actually, regarding the CIO. I was referring to the fact that there was a member on this board who said they did it on an earlier thread and no one seemed bothered by it, but bed sharing is "weird".

And sorry, but your comments came off as judgy to me. JMO. You don't "understand" why so many babies sleep in the same room as their parents? Well I don't "understand" why you put your baby in a separate room since birth. 

Fair enough.  And I didn't read the CIO from a previous post, so I missed the connection.

KNemo

MrsNorry:

RockyRoad3:

Along these same lines, I don't understand why so many babies sleep in the same room as the parents.  I don't get all these questions about transitioning to room/crib/out of RnP.  Aria has been in her room, in her crib, since day one.   

Maybe because studies show that co-sleeping (not bed sharing, which is what the PP is referring to I think, there's a difference) reduces the chance of SIDS, especially between 2-4 months? Maybe because the parents just like having their baby close by? Why do you care?

Maybe my UO is I think it's shittty to judge people who bed share/co-sleep but not judge people who let their 2 month old CIO. Call me crazy.

MrsNorry:

And sorry, but your comments came off as judgy to me. JMO. You don't "understand" why so many babies sleep in the same room as their parents? Well I don't "understand" why you put your baby in a separate room since birth. 

 

I love you like a fat kid loves cake! 

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