I'm entering the 3rd trimester this weekend. I'm already feeling huge and uncomfortable. Many of my maternity clothes are starting to look too small and may not fit for much longer. My physical discomfort is increasing and last night I felt like crying because I was having so much trouble breathing. I felt like I was drowning or suffocating, which sent me into a bit of a panic, which I'm sure only made matters worse.
I'm just curious if I should expect to continue growing at an outrageusly exponential rate over these next few months, or if it might slow down a bit?? I watched Charlie and the Chocolate Factory with my stepkids last weekend and I feel like that little girl that turned into a blueberry! I feel like I'm just going to keep expanding forever and ever!! Starting to get nervous about how much worse it will get over time.
Re: How much bigger did you get in the 3rd tri?
IUI#3 - Jan 6 IVF#1 -5/18 - stims start (225 gonal f, 75 menopur, 5 lupron) ER 5/29 - 14R, 11M, 7F. 6/1 - Transferred 2 8cell embryos (grade 1 and 2). 8dp3dt +HPT, Beta#1 - 92, Beta #2 - 174, Beta#3 - 614, Beta#4 - 2010. 6wk u/s - TWINS! Baby A 114bpm, Baby B 112 bpm
This made me LOL...you are so cute! I can definitely relate to the feeling, though. I also feel like I've gotten waay bigger (and waaay more uncomfortable) this trimester, but, like PP said, you also kinda get used to it. Also, when I'm feeling down about my size or all the discomforts that come with it, I just remind myself that it means that my LOs are getting nice and big and are that much closer to being in my arms. Take it one day at a time; in the grand scheme of things, this period of time in life will be just a blip on the radar.
Same here.
IVF 1 April 2011 - Cancelled
IVF 1.5 July 2011 - MC
IVF 2 October 2011 - BFP!
*Identical Twin Boys born June 2012*
Here we go again...IVF 3 is underway!
Not to be a negative nelly but I was miserable in the 3rd tri and it seemed to get worse every day. I only made it to 34w and I'm not sure how I would have survived the next 4ish weeks if I went any longer. But, hopefully that's not everyone's experience and you really do forget all the discomfort once it's over. Hang in there!!
And just to clarify, I would have gladly kept them in there longer if my body let me, no matter how miserable I was.
8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
3/09 Polyp removed and dx MTHFR (both copies)
6 Clomid cycles, all BFN
5/09 IUI#1 with Clomid=BFN
6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
IVF#1 = BFN
IVF#2 = BFN
IVF#3 ET 2 Grade A blasts 11/16/11
Beta #1: 485
Beta #2: 2,495
I will say a few weeks into the third tri and I have good days and bad. I will hit a wall every few days and wonder how I can go on, then the next day I feel so much better.
Now I am struggling with swelling and water weight and breathing. I honestly just try to take it one day at a time and when I feel as though I can't go any further I just take a seat and some quiet time and push on. I honestly no longer even think about I have 6ish weeks left, I just think I can make it through today.
Best of luck!
06/12 - BFP!!!!
Beta #1 15dpo - 256
Beta #2 18dpo - 1097
6wk U/S on 07/02 ~ TWINS!!!
EDD 02/21/13
09/10/12 Found out it's two Boys!!!! Sam and Jake
Jacob and Samuel born 1/29/13 at 36 weeks.
This is pretty accurate. Around 26/27/28 weeks I was feeling VERY sorry for myself and felt like I couldn't possibly go on. Around 34 weeks, I settled down and just sort of got used to it. Nothing fit me, even my biggest maternity clothes, and I felt like no one could possibly relate. At about 36 weeks, I just took it day by day and realized it is what you make it. Once you hit 36/37/38 weeks, it feels VERY temporary!
I'm feeling most of my growth in the 3rd tri also.... stretching, back aches, breathlessness. I'm also outgrowing my materinity shirts (some don't cover my belly completely - thank god for panel pants!)
Hang in there! it's a great sign the babies are growing!
Twin boys born too early at 17w4d and 18w2d in February 2010
Transabdominal cerclage placed September 2010
DS born at 35w1d in February 2011
Twin girls born at exactly 36w in February 2013
3rd tri has been rough. DH swears I grow over night every night and I feel like it. Back pain, pressure, breathing problems etc. I just keep repeating its worth it! I would rather be uncomfortable all day then comfortable and dealing with NICU time. Now that I'm on bedrest I'm convinced they are going to camp out until 38 weeks.