I suffer with infertility and chronic miscarriages so I know the pain that it brings, but my best friend went in on Sunday to be induced at 37 weeks because after a month on bed rest her blood pressure was endangering her health. At 5pm I sent her a message telling her I was thinking about her and can't wait to hear any updates. At 6:30 she sent me a message back saying she is not up for visitors and that her little boy's heart rate dropped and that they were unable to get it back, he didn't make it. I have wept for her for what seems like forever but I do not know how to be there for her, support her or what to even get her. I was thinking I would buy her a locket so she can keep a picture of her precious angel but I do not want to be inaapropriate. Any advice? And Thank you for shariing your heart ache so others can better support and understand.
There's an FAQ posted at the top of the page that has helpful advise on what to do and what not to do. Jewelry is always a nice gesture. Sorry for your friend's loss. Feel free to direct her to this board for support.
In memory of Corbin Scott 10/28/11-12/3/11.
Heaven got another angel the night you left this world behind
Heaven got a little better the day it took you away from me
Missing you tonight, see you again sometime
For now I'll close my eyes and dream of heaven tonight
I'll love you forever
I'll like you for always
Now and Forever
My baby you'll be
Re: how do I support a friend (loss)
In memory of Corbin Scott 10/28/11-12/3/11. Heaven got another angel the night you left this world behind Heaven got a little better the day it took you away from me Missing you tonight, see you again sometime For now I'll close my eyes and dream of heaven tonight I'll love you forever I'll like you for always Now and Forever My baby you'll be
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You may also want to read our blog, it has a lot of helpful information.
https://thelossblog.blogspot.com/