Just to vent.

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I am a working mom and the only income for a family of three. DH goes to school full time. DS has PDD-NOS.

I just feel the daycare is calling it quits on us.

They moved DS to the 2's class as of May this year and had him in there before the Thanksgiving holiday even though he is 3. Throughout that time we have undergone speech, ot, and behavioral therapies.

When he was in the 2's recently, they made a contract that looked like I did not do anything to help DS. They were not going to move him up until he was potty trained.

Turns out it is not working well at the daycare. They have asked me to pick him up at 430 due to aggression he has had at that time.

The director kept saying that DS does not have autism. I told her PDD-NOS is the type of autism he has. It upsets me that when she says this, it is pretty much saying I am a bad parent.

I just want DS to be accepted.

He has had some allergy pills that has some side effects of aggression. We have stopped giving him the pills. 

I feel I am going to lose in this fight. I have asked my boss to let me leave at 430 to skip lunch. But I just can't do that in my entire career.

What do you all do when you DS/DD has aggression?

TIA