Monday B!tchfest

janice9821

gamergirl522:

I finally met with my lawyer for my car accident and he recommended filing a claim with both the drivers involved in the initial accident that caused me to be hit.  Called insurance #1 for the guy who rear-ended the car that hit me "Oh, the other guy cut him off, he's not responsible"... called Insurance #2, left a message with the claims adjuster 3 hours ago, still no word.  This is going to be a long long wait to get reimbursed for my car.  Thank GOD I have a lawyer for the personal injury part.

How is it your job to file claims with the other insurance companies? I thought that's what your insurance company was for...

mama&baby

Nwlywed07:

DH blew me off the past few days during my FW (after busting out the lingerie 3 nights in a row) and then last night woke me up wanting it at 1 am. Umm...how about no buddy? I want to sleep...just like you did the past few days! 

I told DH this the other day.... he wanted some I didn't. I reminded him of the last time I put on lingerie and heels and went into his "office". He was playing a computer game and said no thanks. Needless to say, this time he didn't get any.

theseaword

katehutsen:

My husband and I had a fight last night because he thinks we are "trying too hard" to have a baby and it will happen when it happens.nbsp; He doesn't want me to chart my bbt or use OPKs.nbsp; I have only been off of BCP for two cycles so I am still irregular and whenever I have Watery or EWCM I tell him it's go time since I am not 100 sure. So we have been HIO as much as we can the last week and a half or so.Last night I got a positive OPK and I had watery CM so I told him we needed to BD.nbsp; He got upset because he was tired and he told me that if I don't know exactly when I am ovulating, then we don't need to have sex.I am getting a little irritated because I told him it would take a few cycles before I would know for sure but I didn't want to miss my FW! He seems to think that I need to stop charting and taking OPKs because, and he has mentioned this several times, "all of the people in China that have 8 or 9 kids don't try that hard so why should we?"He is one of those guys who thinks you can get pregnant any day of the month...rant. over.

I know it's not the point of your post, but...people in China with 8 or 9 kids? What? China has a single child policy.

amricangrl1

My mom is in from out of town and we were on our way to the mall for some shopping she wanted to drive her rental. We ended up getting into a car accident in front of the mall. Everyone is ok. The guy we hit ended up being a paramedic, oh the irony.

I love my mother to death but I have always hated riding with her now I have an even bigger fear of being in the passenger seat!

Jellyfish42

Paitonsmommy:

I cannot stand fake people. If you have something you want to say to someone just F'ing say it. I do not sugar coat things. Sometimes that gets me in trouble but at least I am real. I truely believe that if you don't like me for me I am better off with you not liking me.

On the same lines, I wish management could see through brown nosing. There is one lady on my team at work that has her head so far up every managers rear that is a wonder she can see to walk.

Sorry, I am super b!tchy today. I got no sleep because DD started throwing up in the middle of the night and <b>I was already on the couch due to SO's snoring.</b> Grrrrrrr!

Ear plugs saved my marriage, friend.

Luckbeababy

katehutsen:

Luckbeababy:

katehutsen:

My husband and I had a fight last night because he thinks we are "trying too hard" to have a baby and it will happen when it happens.  He doesn't want me to chart my bbt or use OPKs.  I have only been off of BCP for two cycles so I am still irregular and whenever I have Watery or EWCM I tell him it's go time since I am not 100% sure. So we have been HIO as much as we can the last week and a half or so.

Last night I got a positive OPK and I had watery CM so I told him we needed to BD.  He got upset because he was tired and he told me that if I don't know exactly when I am ovulating, then we don't need to have sex.

I am getting a little irritated because I told him it would take a few cycles before I would know for sure but I didn't want to miss my FW! He seems to think that I need to stop charting and taking OPKs because, and he has mentioned this several times, "all of the people in China that have 8 or 9 kids don't try that hard so why should we?"

He is one of those guys who thinks you can get pregnant any day of the month...

rant. over.

Could you not tell him it is "go time" and just make him think you are wanting to have sex just because you want to have sex? Maybe knowing all the details is throwing him off and he is just feeling like you want to have sex just for the purpose of getting pregnant and that is stressing him out and taking the fun out of it. I think a lot of the times when it comes to TTC women start to see sex as only a means to get pregnant and lose sight that sex outside our FW is just as important for a healthy relationship. Why does he have to know that you are temping and charting? If you don't talk about it and you feel it gives you more insight and control then just do it. That way you can mix it up. Sex for fun and sex for baby making and still cover all your bases. Would he get mad if he found out?

I would try that however, for the first year of our marriage (before we started trying) he didn't want to have sex for what felt like AT ALL! Like I said, we would do it about once or twice a month and when I asked he would turn me down all the time. To this day I pretty much have to beg for it, which is sad, but he always says that our marriage is not just about sex. I agree with him, but that is a major part of it that I can't get from anyone but him. It's an ongoing battle but I tried not telling him and he just turns me down so then I feel like I have to tell him otherwise we will miss a month!

That's a bummer. My husband goes through periods to where he just is not interested in sex for whatever the reason, drives me nuts. It definitely can put a dapper on things, especially when sex is needed to make a baby. Maybe for the time being, like a PP said, tell him that if he gets on board with charting you can narrow it down to just a few days each month and then you will both get what you want, sex during your FW and you wont ask for it any other time unless he wants it and he only has to do it a few times each month like he wants but has to promiimp that those times are on the important days. Good luck either way!

Rakaiya

First time posting here, but I felt I could jump in on this one. 

 

I'm cranky because I'm cramping and just wish I knew why -_-