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Anyone else?

cislebride07cislebride07
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I'm starting to look at my relationships with my friends and family. Is anyone else feeling as though they haven't been there for friends and family lately? I have gotten so caught up in this IF nightmare that I feel like I'm not being a good friend, and sister, Daughter, etc. Maybe I need to put this aside for a while and not just think about myself.
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  • Lauren79Lauren79 member

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    I'm starting to look at my relationships with my friends and family. Is anyone else feeling as though they haven't been there for friends and family lately? I have gotten so caught up in this IF nightmare that I feel like I'm not being a good friend, and sister, Daughter, etc. Maybe I need to put this aside for a while and not just think about myself.

    I feel the opposite.  I feel as though I am always there for my friends and family in good times and bad.  I feel that no one ever calls me to ask how I am doing.  I need to focus more on myself and not everyone else.  It's hard because it's my nature to take care of people. 

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    I dont feel this way. My advice is just that if you are make sure you are filling your time with a variety of activities so that IF is not all you have to think about.  It is hard I know.  I have been trying for almost two years.  

     

    I also dont talk to many people about it.  Partially because I am private but also i dont feel like sharing again and again my feelings on it.  

     

     





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