I think I've realized what my problem is with some names, particularly girl names. I just can't see a lot of my favorites on a little baby. Now, I fully realize that babies are only babies for a short time and names grow with the kid. However, I'm having trouble fully getting behind my would-be favorite because it just seems funny to imagine a baby being called Eliza.
Am I being ridiculous? I feel like this hang-up is what's preventing me from feeling really good about the name, which would otherwise probably be a front-runner.
Re: name issue - Eliza
Well, it's worked for all the other women named Eliza who were once babies. I think it's more common to think of nickname on babies. Whether that's a shortened form of their formal name or just an affectionate name. DS is Theodore but we call him Teddy. In the first year of his life I called him Chunk-a-monk probably about 30% of the time too.
Our name if this one is a boy is William, nn Will. But sometimes it's hard to think of a baby being called Will. If that doesn't fit I'm not opposed to Billy or even Willie on a baby (I've known a few Willies- penis jokes aside).
Good point - and that's true about random nicknames kind of taking over for infants. We called my son Munchkin McPhearson (or MunchMac) for a long time - and still do sometimes
also, Jamesy Boy. So I can see what you're saying.
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Interesting perspective! If we ever have 2 girls the plan for now is number 2 will be Elizabeth Josephine and we'll call her Eliza Jo. I guess we'll have to see though! I think I might be heartbroken if Maggie doesn't fit my Margaret it is BY FAR my favorite nickname.
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LOVE this name and totally see it on a baby and young lady! and like pp, she could get a cutey nickname at first like Lizzie or Ellie or Monkey haha
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You are being silly.
Eliza is a beautiful name and once you start calling your sweet baby girl that, you won't think twice about it.
That is my daughters name!!! I thought of EJ but it wasn't feminine enough. It's funny though because when she was teeny I told someone her name and they said, "aw, her name is bigger than she is." It's my favorite memory about her name.
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I've thought about maybe doing Elizabeth with Eliza as the nn, but I tend to like shorter girl names (Eliza is already longer than many of my other favorites) and I'm not sure how it would work. For those of you with Elizas who are formally Elizabeth, do you introduce them as just Eliza? Do you use Elizabeth at all?
We usually introduce her as Elizabeth. We use both pretty interchangeably though.
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