My husband and I have become close friends with another couple since we have been dating. The guys have been best friends for over 10 years and the wife and I become close friends. The guys were both the best man in each others wedding and I was her maid of honor last year. When I became pregnant in the spring, she started to try not soon after. Well, they are now pregnant with their first and are due in the spring. We were so excited to be able to raise kids with them and then our tragedy happened.
It has been 7 weeks since Killian passed away. Since then, I have not heard one word from her. Not a text, facebook message, call...nothing. In fact, the day after his funeral, she started posting a message every single day about their baby. Eventually, after being so hurt by her, I blocked her messages from showing on my news feed. Although curiosity still gets the best of me, I look at her page. The real kicker was last night. Her husband posted a picture of their nursery and they chose the same theme as us, in a different color scheme. Yes, I understand lots of people pick a safari theme, and we picked this theme because we did not know the sex of Killian until the day he was born. They chose to find out (another stab to the heart for us is they are also having a boy). I can not for the life of me figure out how someone can do that to someone they care about. I forgot to mention that she originally told me that they were doing turtles/water theme I am boiling inside and trying to figure out how to address it with them. It is hard enough to process an empty nursery here at home but seeing that someone we were supposed to be close to choose the same theme after ignoring us since Killian's passing has been too much to handle.
Any thoughts of how to handle this?