My daughter's kindergarten teacher gives U's and N's on work. It seems so harsh. What are your opinions? I don't expect my child to get an E on everything, but she's just 5 and in her first year of school. She thinks she is doing poorly in school and I think that is too much negativity for the first year of school.
Re: Grades in Kindergarten
What percentage of her papers come back with an "N"? Does she get positive feedback with an occasional "oops" paper thrown in, or is the great majority of her work coming back indicating that she's not producing the quality of work the teacher is looking for?
If my child was getting an occasional "needs improvement," I'd be happy that the teacher is willing to give honest feedback and let me and the child know what needs work! I would emphasize to the child that the teacher cares and wants to help her learn. I would remind her that not everyone does everything perfectly the first time. Learning takes practice. Giving feedback so that you can learn from mistakes is a powerful way to help a student learn and grow.
On the other hand, if my child was getting LOTS of "needs improvement" feedback, I'd be concerned that there's something wrong. I don't think it's good for a 5 y/o to get lots and lots of negative feedback. I also suspect that it's not normal for a child to get many negative grades, as opposed to satisfactory or outstanding (or whatever terms your school uses.) In that case I would call the teacher to discuss why my child is struggling and to begin to work together to help her along.
FWIW, my kids' school used a 3-letter system for K grades: P = proficient in that skill, I = skill is in progress, N = not yet demonstrating that skill. Both of my kids got a combination of "in progress" and "proficient" at the start of the year, with an occasional "not yet." Later in the year, they began to bring home mostly "Ps."
We don't receive anything graded that is returned on a daily/weekly basis. At conference time, we discussed what areas my kids were already demonstrating proficiency in, and what is still being worked on. When it comes to "grades," it is what the kids are able to do on their benchmarks that matters.
I do not understand why the teacher feels the need to put a "N" or "U." Is she referring to printing or neatness? I don't feel that it is beneficial, and would rather the teacher work with my child if he/she feels that the work is subpar, and then discuss it with me if my child wasn't making progress or having difficulty. Maybe you should schedule a meeting?
DS only gets smiley faces, "good work", "great", etc on daily papers. Some papers he brings home don't have anything written by the teacher. The only grades he has gotten are on mid-term progress reports and report cards. The grade system they use in K here is NS(needs support), AE(approaching expectations), ME(meets expectations), EE(exceeds).
The county I taught in used E, S, N, U as grades in K. However, those were mostly only given on report cards. It seems harsh to me to grade all papers like that in K.
His handwriting needs improvement. His teacher talked to us about it and we are all working on it. She has never given him a negative remark on a paper because of his writing though.
I think they need positive feedback. If there are some things that need improvement it should be discussed in a conference and worked on in a positive way. I would not be happy with a bunch of papers with U's and N's. It breaks my heart that she thinks she is doing poorly in school at 5yrs.