I am sorry I am not introducing myself or telling my story but i just cant right now. we have decided to have our little girl cremated, she was born at 20 wks. If you had your child cremated did you use an urn from the funeral home or something else? My mom mentioned of the willow tree boxes but I haven't been able to actually go look at them, would that even work? The funeral hone said we can bring in our own container but I don't want to wander around stores explaining to sales clerks why we need a tiny little container. Thank you for any advice you might have and if this is a totally inappropriate post I can delete it.