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Baby is here, but not ours.

christielovesnathanchristielovesnathan
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The baby is here early, and he's in the NICU right now because he's having breathing issues. His mom decided to keep him. I knew it was coming but I'm still so sad.
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  • steph196steph196 member
    I am so sorry. :( Hugs!
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  • kimmyb1020kimmyb1020 member
    I'm so sorry :(
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  • Allie-JoAllie-Jo member
    I'm so very sorry : My heart is breaking for you!
    TTC since June 2009 DX: PCOS October 2010
    6 medicated cycles, 2 pregnancies, 1 ectopic April 2011, Early Miscarriage August 2011
    7 more cycles, 1 IUI, No success after last pregnancy
    7/1/2012 No more fertility coverage
    8/17/2012 started pursuing domestic infant adoption!
    11/26/2012 HOME STUDY APPROVED!!!
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  • DaisyZHDaisyZH member
    (( Hugs )) I'm sorry, thoughts and prayers for all of you.


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  • JodyA118JodyA118

    I am so sorry to hear this. I have the same fear. My heart goes out to you and your family 

     

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  • MayDayGirlMayDayGirl member
    Crap. I am so so so sorry.
    Married on 3.20.2004. It took 30 month, 2 failed adoptions and IVF for our first miracle. We have had 9 foster kids since he was born and started the domestic adoption process when he was 10 month old, we had 4 failed matches in that time. After our daughter was born we brought her home and spent 2 weeks fearing we might lose her because of complications that came up. But Praise God all went through and she is ours forever! Expecting again after IVF Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • GWUAlumGWUAlum member
    hugs thoughts and prayers are w/ you
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  • missred75missred75 member
    I am so sorry. ::hugs::
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  • raecheleblue1raecheleblue1 member
    Oh, I'm so so sorry.  Many hugs!

    TTC since March 2010, BFP #1 11.09.10, ectopic, m/c 12.14.10 (10w)
    Clomid + TI=BFN, IUIs 1-6= BFN
    Application for domestic adoption submitted 4/18/12, matched 8/12/12, DD born 10/31/12


     

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  • dholsappdholsapp member
    Words I'm sure cant comfort you right now,but I'm still so very sorry. Hugs! 

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    01/10- Femara
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    07/2010- Clomid with injectables and IUI #1
    08/2010- IUI #2
    06/2011- IVF #1 BFP!
    09/2011- Miscarriage at 10 1/2 weeks
    11/2011- FET
    01/2012- Start Home Study process
    03/2012- Home Study approved and now waiting on our child to find us!
    07/2012- matched with a BM who is due in October!
    11/10/12- our son is born!
    11/13/12- court grants us custody!
     12/28/12- finalization! Always ours in our hearts, but.now also ours forever

                           

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  • CaptainSeriousCaptainSerious member
    I am very sorry to hear this.  :-(
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  • IRRIRR member
    I'll say it.  THAT TOTALLY SUCKS!  I am so sorry to hear that but I do hope the baby makes it safely out of NICU.  Hoping you match again quickly and your wait is short for you to meet your LO.
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  • MagickalNarwhalMagickalNarwhal member
    Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. Take care of yourself.
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  • bhead81bhead81 member
    I am so sorry!!!!
    Brenda & Phillip married 10/10/09 

    After 6 years of failed cycles, we were blessed with our little man through adoption. 
    B born 1/3/2012. Adoption finalized 12/27/12

    Back  on the IF crazy train...
    Sept 2013 - IVF #1 -  BFP, EDD 6/4/14, born 6/8/14
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  • potatoheadpotatohead member
    I'm so sorry.  I hope you don't have to wait too much longer.
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  • fledgegrl1fledgegrl1

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    I'll say it.  THAT TOTALLY SUCKS!  I am so sorry to hear that but I do hope the baby makes it safely out of NICU.  Hoping you match again quickly and your wait is short for you to meet your LO.

    This. Exactly. So sorry to hear you are going through this. Hoping for the best for the baby and mom, and for you as you deal with this loss.

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  • annaliselannalisel member

    I'm sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.  

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  • jillianmbjillianmb member
    I'm so sorry.  Prayers for you during this difficult time.

    TTC September 2010 thru October 2011
    SA February 2011: Normal
    RE App. October 2011 - Recc. Clomid and IUI

    Taking a break from TTC to pursue adoption

    Met our 2 year old son in Russia July 2012!
    Court trip October 2012
    Home November 24 2012!

    Back to RE Summer 2013. TTC journey continues: 

    Dx DOR, endometriosis, low sperm count 
    Clomid + IUI#1, #2 = BFN / IUI #3 = ???

    Laparoscopy scheduled December 2013

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  • orange1414orange1414 member
    ((hugs))
    Trying to grow our family with both fertility treatments and adoption since March 2009 
    IUIs#1-4 = BFN, IVF#1 = c/p, IVF#2 = OHSS, FET#1=BFP
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  • ellekaeellekae member
    So sorry he wasn't your forever baby!! Praying for you guys.

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  • herrayherray
    I am so sorry to hear this
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  • sgb721sgb721 member
    I pray for the health of that little boy.  I am truly sorry that he will not be joining your family.
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  • Ginger71Ginger71 member
    (((hugs))) I'm so sorry. Wishing you peace and strength.
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