WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?! - VENT

ceamac0127

I have had many people compliment me, telling me how great I look, how I am all belly, etc. Today a girl at work says "ya, I can't believe how big you've gotten and you still have 4 months to go" WTH?! It's funny how a comment can totally erase all the nice compliments.

SMH at some people - Learn when to shut your mouth! Especially to a hormonal pregnant woman;  I need a glass of wine.

 

 

 

 

Fremdschamen

uh.. whut?? Is that picture in your signature a recent picture of you?  If so, I would give a gazillion dollars to look that nice for the rest of my life, baby belly and all.  I look like a dairy cow by comparison. 

Ignore the rude biotch who told you that you're "big".

PansyPants

I think you look fantastic and that she's crazy! 

livefreelovetrue

I think the thinner you are to begin with, the bigger people think you are just because you can actually see that it's a baby, not just extra weight.  Everyone has me feeling like I must be outrageously disproportionately big to be 'only' 20 weeks.  I weighed 120 before (at 5'6) and I've gained 7 pounds.  My sister even told my dad that I must definitely be incorrect about my due date (despite measuring at exactly the right size for that due date) because I'm 'so big.'  My sister, who is easily 200 pounds and has never had a baby.  I just ignore everyone telling me that I must be further along or that there must be 'two in there'.  So annoying, I agree!

whitneylauren

People just don't think before they speak. I was told last night that I was waddling if that makes you feel better, lol. I can't help it, my hips feel stiff.

Elijah0915

STFU!!!! WHAT A BIATCH!

You look beautiful...and we are getting bigger, but for the best reason in the world!!!!

(((Hugs)))

 

creativeaim

What a nasty comment... try not to take it to heart!

 At work I get "advice" and negative comments (you're still running? you still drink coffee?! just wait til... blah blah blah) quite often and my hormonal self is having a hard time blowing them off Why do people pick on pregnant ladies?

colleenh01

I think you look great. She's probably just jealous! Don't let her bring you down!

hikeandwine

Seriously?! I'm at least twice your size. You look great! Don't let her get you down. I think we could all use a glass of wine. Or some of that awesome wine ice cream that just came out. Evil thing to come out during pregnancy aye?

pinottoparenthood

Fremdschamen:

uh.. whut?? Is that picture in your signature a recent picture of you?  If so, I would give a gazillion dollars to look that nice for the rest of my life, baby belly and all.  I look like a dairy cow by comparison. 

Ignore the rude biotch who told you that you're "big".

This.... you're tiny and your bump is adorable! 

kimmarie1105

You are slim to begin with. Im assuming your stomach was very flat pre-pregnancy. I think she was just commenting on how your bump has grown. I dont see how this is mean in any way? When people tell me how my bump has grown I feel happy. I dont know, maybe its just me, but I don't see how this is so mean. You look great.

mrhargr

whitneylauren:

People just don't think before they speak. I was told last night that I was waddling if that makes you feel better, lol. I can't help it, my hips feel stiff.

I was told the other day that I was "too early" to be waddling. I said, well, if your back felt like mine, you would be waddling, too. I was really waddling because I had to pee really bad in addition to my back hurting.  

UberBiz

I guess I don't think it's THAT nasty to say, since I say it about myself all the time. I feel HUGE, much bigger than when I was preg with my daughter, I'm always wondering if I'm this big now, how am I going to make it through 4 1/2 more months? My mom is always asking me if we're sure there aren't two in there or if they were wrong on how far along I am.

BUT, OP, you definitely don't look that big, if that pic in your siggie was you at 20w! You look AMAZING so just ignore the people that think you're bigger than you should be.