**BLOWFISH**

TunaTown

I'm a little worried. It's getting late and you haven't provided an update about your meeting with the CO and your DH's response.

I pray that you're OK.

Please post ASAP.

*hugs* 

Spapeggy

Seriously same brain wave! Please update soon. Hugs prayers 

[Deleted User]

Yeah, me too.  ::worry worry::

klondikebar

I was wondering too. I hope everything went ok.

RondackHiker

I was thinking about this too.

RockyTopVols

hey me too.

blowfish11

Sorry ladies. its been such a long afternoon.

the meeting was ok. they are gonna do what they can.

but I also found out he has a pending drug test. my H told me he took ecstasy... and that he will probably fail. meaning dishonorable discharge from the military.

It hasn't set in quite yet that he's completely destroyed our lives. I packed some stuff and went to my grandmothers house after I got out of that meeting.

thank you all for your prayers and well wishes. :

MrsPteranodon

blowfish11:

Sorry ladies. its been such a long afternoon. the meeting was ok. they are gonna do what they can. but I also found out he has a pending drug test. my H told me he took ecstasy... and that he will probably fail. meaning dishonorable discharge from the military. It hasn't set in quite yet that he's completely destroyed our lives. I packed some stuff and went to my grandmothers house after I got out of that meeting. thank you all for your prayers and well wishes. :

I am so sorry blowfish!  

RondackHiker

Oh no. I'm so sorry. Seperate the accounts. That's not overreacting, that's taking care of yourself.

Karschingham

blowfish11:

Sorry ladies. its been such a long afternoon. the meeting was ok. they are gonna do what they can. but I also found out he has a pending drug test. my H told me he took ecstasy... and that he will probably fail. meaning dishonorable discharge from the military. It hasn't set in quite yet that he's completely destroyed our lives. I packed some stuff and went to my grandmothers house after I got out of that meeting. thank you all for your prayers and well wishes. :

oh my god, I'm so so so sorry about the shyt he's putting you through, sounds like you've got some big decisions to make and sounds like he has some major growing up to do. HUGS x's 10million

RockyTopVols

mbenit4:

What made them drug test him?
DId you ever find out where the money went?
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sounds to me like money went to drugs.

AshasaurusRex

blowfish11:

Sorry ladies. its been such a long afternoon. the meeting was ok. they are gonna do what they can. but I also found out he has a pending drug test. my H told me he took ecstasy... and that he will probably fail. meaning dishonorable discharge from the military. It hasn't set in quite yet that he's completely destroyed our lives. I packed some stuff and went to my grandmothers house after I got out of that meeting. thank you all for your prayers and well wishes. :

Oh my goodness, I am so so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers. ::Big hugs::

Hesterlicious

RockyTopVols:

mbenit4:

What made them drug test him?
DId you ever find out where the money went?
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sounds to me like money went to drugs.

Ecstasy is like 10 bucks a pill. It has to be going somewhere else too unless he's on it full time.

Manateearmz

I just caught up on all of this. Hugs to you and I really hope the best for you.

RockyTopVols

Yes because he finally admitted to doing one drug that means he wasn't doing anything else, selling it, etc.

People will cop to a lesser offense to try to hide bigger ones. I know this from family experience.

I am not saying he took 700 worth of X. But I would venture to say it isn't the only thing.

MandaPanda518

I'm so so sorry you're going through this Blowfish.

RockyTopVols

mbenit4:

obviously there is more to the story.

Agree. Sad situation. : Hope it works out for you BF.

RockyTopVols

mbenit4:

justAphase:

Also, does he stay away many nights? Ecstasy isn't necessarily something you can take under the radar. Obviously, you don't have to answer this. I wish the best for you and your children.

I can be on Ecstasy and you not know. Just staying.

That's because she is hundreds of miles away from you posting on the internet. Of course she wouldnt know!

I kid, I kid.

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tarebear9891

Just getting caught up.

So sorry blowfish! I can't imagine what you are going through with your life turned upside down.

You sound like a level headed, amazing person and you will get through this!

klondikebar

I'm sorry you're going through this. Take care of yourself.

TunaTown

justAphase:

RondackHiker:

Oh no. I'm so sorry. Seperate the accounts. That's not overreacting, that's taking care of yourself.

Definitely this. I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. Don't let yourself get screwed over though. Separate your accounts, talk to a lawyer, document EVERYTHING. Good luck.

This. Go to JAG first thing in the morning!

So sorry. But, at least you have peace of mind knowing what was going on.

You're very brave and doing what's best for you and your LO's.

Hang in there.  

ChuggingWater

I'm sorry you are going through this.  Give yourself some time to think things through.  You deserve answers, and you deserve to be treated better than this.   

Marriage is difficult, but it always require two people working at it with trust and honesty, and sounds like he isn't doing either.

sbartschke

Sorry you are having to deal with this. I will be thinking about you and your LO's.

RClaffee

I am so so sorry that your husband has put your family through this. I'll be thinking of you.

MJHershey

Oh no.

I am so so sorry. To me, that's all a dealbreaker.  

HilarityEnsued:

  He may have ruined his life, but he certainly did not ruin yours.  You are your own person, and the mother of an innocent baby.  So you can do what is right for you, and to hell with him.

and this. Definitely. 

jorkz821

I'm so sorry Blowfish! I'm glad you went to stay st your grandma's. can you stay with her for a bit longer til you figure things out?

quidditchcapn1120

I'm so sorry you are going through this blowfish. It may not seem like it now but you will rise above this and your daughter will have a better life because of it. Be gentle on yourself.

LoveBeingAWife33008

X isn't normally a drug you do alone.  Its more fun with others.  I hope he doesn't have a "partner" that hes been doing it with.

Im sorry you're going through this.

MrsGoodkat

I'm so sorry, blowfish. I hope you are able to get the help you need to take care of yourself and your kids.

 

mbenit4:

What made them drug test him?

They do random drug testing. I think what she is saying that he did ecstasy and then they drug tested him (randomly, or maybe they had suspicions, who knows) and he's telling her the results probably won't be good (that's my take, I could have read her post wrong).

LadyXaverian

I'm so sorry.  

MrsGoodkat

mbenit4:

justAphase:

Also, does he stay away many nights? Ecstasy isn't necessarily something you can take under the radar. Obviously, you don't have to answer this. I wish the best for you and your children.

I can be on Ecstasy and you not know. Just staying.

Wait, are you a drug user? Or former? Or you just know people? lol

lrn327

I'm really very sorry Blowfish. Take care of yourself.