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Double standard

I'm a regular poster here and I also chose to create an AE to ask a controversial question. What's with the "you're a NEWBIE" remark? Are we in high school again? Seriously.

Who the fluck cares how many post you have? Does that make you all knowing?

I fail to understand why people who sit on here for hours responding to up their post counts are any more "knowledgable" than anyone else. Doesn't make sense and it's very immature.

Can anyone enlighten me?
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  • If you are a regular poster, say what the hell you want to say under your real name and stop being such a pussay about it. Geez...talk about being in high school. 
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  • imageAETBJOKE:
    I'm a regular poster here and I also chose to create an AE to ask a controversial question. What's with the "you're a NEWBIE" remark? Are we in high school again? Seriously. Who the fluck cares how many post you have? Does that make you all knowing? I fail to understand why people who sit on here for hours responding to up their post counts are any more "knowledgable" than anyone else. Doesn't make sense and it's very immature. Can anyone enlighten me?

     

    If u can't handle it, I say then don't come here. People u don't know shouldn't be able to make u that upset or whatever. Lol. :-)  

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  • imageburmann:
    I have only been here about a month and half.  I was under the impression that Tuesdays are the crazy days.  Did Tuesday start early?

    I like Tuesdays starting early; that way I can get to Friday quicker.

    OP STU. Everyone knows newbs who post BFPs don't get sugar and rainbows; because, they haven't supported others and no one knows them. 

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  • I'm new here, I kind of understand where these AE posts are coming from.

    I understand that you should read the newbie link first, many times so you don't miss something and ask a question that's been asked 1 million + times. I would find that irritating too if I'd been using the site for a long time.

    What I don't understand is the unnecessary harshness used in several of the replies I read day in and day out. If you think the posters question is dumb, there is no need to be mean about it. I'm not saying baby people, but have a heart. If you don't like what they posted, why bother replying, unless of course if was offensive.

    What if that person is having a really bad day and they missed something in the newbie link. What if they don't think the question is dumb. What if they are just really new to this site/ charting / TTC and don't really get it.

    People view things differently and thats ok, I just really disagree with the way some people act on these boards.

    That said, I haven't really had a bad experience yet, I've just read a lot of other peoples. Try not to take anything to heart on here.

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  • WTH is going on???
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    WTH is going on???

     

    Agree! Why is everyone so f**king butthurt tonight?! Is it because of the full moon? 

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  • imageChancieMark:
    I could give a fluck about post count. There are plenty of intelligent newbs here and plenty of twaty regular posters. I do not discriminate with my distaste for others.

    Equal opportunity here, people!!


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  • Meh.  Put a bunch of women together and craziness is bound to happen.  Take it or leave it.  It's just the way of the board. 

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  • imageDachshundLove:

    I'm new here, I kind of understand where these AE posts are coming from.

    I understand that you should read the newbie link first, many times so you don't miss something and ask a question that's been asked 1 million + times. I would find that irritating too if I'd been using the site for a long time.

    What I don't understand is the unnecessary harshness used in several of the replies I read day in and day out. If you think the posters question is dumb, there is no need to be mean about it. I'm not saying baby people, but have a heart. If you don't like what they posted, why bother replying, unless of course if was offensive.

    What if that person is having a really bad day and they missed something in the newbie link. What if they don't think the question is dumb. What if they are just really new to this site/ charting / TTC and don't really get it.

    People view things differently and thats ok, I just really disagree with the way some people act on these boards.

    That said, I haven't really had a bad experience yet, I've just read a lot of other peoples. Try not to take anything to heart on here.

    :::pats dachshunds head::::

    you're cute. and not long for this board with this kind of post.

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    nbsp;If u can't handle it, I say then don't come here. People u don't know shouldn't be able to make u that upset or whatever. Lol. : nbsp;


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  • imagelobosabby:
    imageDachshundLove:

    I'm new here, I kind of understand where these AE posts are coming from.

    I understand that you should read the newbie link first, many times so you don't miss something and ask a question that's been asked 1 million + times. I would find that irritating too if I'd been using the site for a long time.

    What I don't understand is the unnecessary harshness used in several of the replies I read day in and day out. If you think the posters question is dumb, there is no need to be mean about it. I'm not saying baby people, but have a heart. If you don't like what they posted, why bother replying, unless of course if was offensive.

    What if that person is having a really bad day and they missed something in the newbie link. What if they don't think the question is dumb. What if they are just really new to this site/ charting / TTC and don't really get it.

    People view things differently and thats ok, I just really disagree with the way some people act on these boards.

    That said, I haven't really had a bad experience yet, I've just read a lot of other peoples. Try not to take anything to heart on here.

    :::pats dachshunds head::::

    you're cute. and not long for this board with this kind of post.

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  • imageMrsM507:
    I miss you, Lobos! I saw the cutest onesie the other day, it had a baby bottle on it and said, "I'll take a bottle of your finest white" haha perfection? I think so.

    I miss you too!!! I think of you often - I'm always a page away!

    I LOVE THAT ONSIE! You MUST send me the link (if you can find it!!!) I also really missed my lush days over Thanksgiving. Everyone was drinking - I would've been plowed with the rest of em!

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  • Come on OP post under your real name this is stupid.

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  • imageChuggingWater:
    imagedarrahmccall:
    nbsp;If u can't handle it, I say then don't come here. People u don't know shouldn't be able to make u that upset or whatever. Lol. : nbsp;
    Does it take too long to type you?
     

    Yup. Not 4 u tho. Lol 

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  • I think judging someone on their post count is stupid, but I also think that creating an AE to ask a question is lame.  Man up and use your real screen name.
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    imageDachshundLove:

    I'm new here, I kind of understand where these AE posts are coming from.

    I understand that you should read the newbie link first, many times so you don't miss something and ask a question that's been asked 1 million + times. I would find that irritating too if I'd been using the site for a long time.

    What I don't understand is the unnecessary harshness used in several of the replies I read day in and day out. If you think the posters question is dumb, there is no need to be mean about it. I'm not saying baby people, but have a heart. If you don't like what they posted, why bother replying, unless of course if was offensive.

    What if that person is having a really bad day and they missed something in the newbie link. What if they don't think the question is dumb. What if they are just really new to this site/ charting / TTC and don't really get it.

    People view things differently and thats ok, I just really disagree with the way some people act on these boards.

    That said, I haven't really had a bad experience yet, I've just read a lot of other peoples. Try not to take anything to heart on here.

    :::pats dachshunds head::::

    you're cute. and not long for this board with this kind of post.

    Yes And OP... if you are only here for support, help, and all that jazz many people here are helpful. But this is NOT a support group. Get counseling if you really need that help-- especially if an internet board upsets you.

  • imageDachshundLove:

    I'm new here, I kind of understand where these AE posts are coming from.

    I understand that you should read the newbie link first, many times so you don't miss something and ask a question that's been asked 1 million + times. I would find that irritating too if I'd been using the site for a long time.

    What I don't understand is the unnecessary harshness used in several of the replies I read day in and day out. If you think the posters question is dumb, there is no need to be mean about it. I'm not saying baby people, but have a heart. If you don't like what they posted, why bother replying, unless of course if was offensive.

    What if that person is having a really bad day and they missed something in the newbie link. What if they don't think the question is dumb. What if they are just really new to this site/ charting / TTC and don't really get it.

    People view things differently and thats ok, I just really disagree with the way some people act on these boards.

    That said, I haven't really had a bad experience yet, I've just read a lot of other peoples. Try not to take anything to heart on here.

     

    I get where this is coming from. If newer people lurked more, which if this is their first message board they may no realize that lurking is the best thing before posting, they'd catch the vibe of the board faster. 

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  • imagelobosabby:

    imageMrsM507:
    I miss you, Lobos! I saw the cutest onesie the other day, it had a baby bottle on it and said, "I'll take a bottle of your finest white" haha perfection? I think so.

    I miss you too!!! I think of you often - I'm always a page away!

    I LOVE THAT ONSIE! You MUST send me the link (if you can find it!!!) I also really missed my lush days over Thanksgiving. Everyone was drinking - I would've been plowed with the rest of em!

    YGPM with the link :)

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    Me: 29, had two blocked tubes - left was cleared during lap, right was unable to be cleared. PCOS & Stage 2 Endo. DH: 32, SA = perfect
    CLOMID: 4 rounds, 50mg + TI = BFN's. FEMARA: 1 round = no response
    12-24-2012 : Laparoscopy, Softball sized cyst/endo/scar tissue removed.
    Cycle #14 - Feb 2013 : 50mg clomid. Ovidrel Trigger. IUI on 2/14/13 = thin lining, multiple cysts.
    Cycle #15 - no meds, still have cysts, no follicles. Boo!
    Forced break. Continuous BCP for 6 weeks to give my jacked up ovaries a break.
    Cycle #16 actively trying (May/June): Femara, TI = BFN
    Cycle #17- #20 - Med/Treatment break, trying on our own = BFN's all around.
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  • I love when posts like this come out and newbs think it's okay to b!tch away on the thread. lol, like it's safe or something...

     

     

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  • I can't believe posts like this still happen.  Really OP and others who think people are too harsh, if you don't like the comments and replies you get, maybe this isn't the place for you.  There are tons of other sites that spew the love...try babygaga.  

    I have learned a great deal from this site, because you get told the truth here.  Not some sugar coated answer you are hoping for.  

     

  • The whole newbie this is Bullspit!!! I am not 19 I have had a kid before I know the difference between a Vagina and a pocket rocket...this webpage was never created to be a source of hatred. I could care less what people call me.....And yes I have also created an AE so STFU to all you who say post under your real name...Its not going to happen because of Biztches like you!!!

    TTGP is for those that are trying to get pregnant...some try for years some try for only a few weeks does that mean that the ones that have it happen sooner deserve hated for being happy? Who cares if they post it here of 1st Tri or on the Dad's board??? I am sorry some of you get so upset when you see that others are getting what you want...but I would like to think that your hostility might be one of the things holding you back!

    If I walked up to a crowd of strangers and said hey guess what I found out I am pregnant today I am pretty Fluckin sure they wouldn't bash and harass me for being happy about it...Even if they have been trying for a baby for 2+ years that is just classless...... You all look for reasons to get your feathers ruffled and it is funny to watch and read about. If there is one person not kissing someone else A$$ on this board then it is like the hounds have been released!

    You all comment about it not being the place for rainbows and glitterfarts and whatever else so buck up right?.....Then why is it when a Newb gets on here and only has 50 posts and says Yeah BFP all you wenches get your feelings hurt and tell her to go away? Pretty Hypocritical of you! You all get your Shiz in a bunch no matter what is said and or who says it!

    Congrats to those of you who will come up with something smart to say or post a sarcastic Gif or call me a twatwaffle or a Ho3 or whatever...go ahead I promise I am not going to sit behind me computer and cry about it! I think that there isnt one of you who would stand up to a pregnant woman face to face and rip her to shreds in a room full of people! (Holds up  Middle finger) 

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    The whole newbie this is Bullspit!!! I am not 19 I have had a kid before I know the difference between a Vagina and a pocket rocket...this webpage was never created to be a source of hatred. I could care less what people call me.....And yes I have also created an AE so STFU to all you who say post under your real name...Its not going to happen because of Biztches like you!!! If you don't like us then why would you care what we think of you if you posted this under your regular screen name?

    TTGP is for those that are trying to get pregnant...some try for years some try for only a few weeks does that mean that the ones that have it happen sooner deserve hated for being happy? Who cares if they post it here of 1st Tri or on the Dad's board??? I am sorry some of you get so upset when you see that others are getting what you want. I don't get upset when others get their BFP. I just don't care if it's a random person who hasn't been around at all..but I would like to think that your hostility might be one of the things holding you back!

    If I walked up to a crowd of strangers and said hey guess what I found out I am pregnant today I am pretty Fluckin sure they wouldn't bash and harass me for being happy about it. Probably not, but they also wouldn't give a rats ass that you are pregnant...Even if they have been trying for a baby for 2+ years that is just classless...... You all look for reasons to get your feathers ruffled and it is funny to watch and read about. If there is one person not kissing someone else A$$ on this board then it is like the hounds have been released!

    You all comment about it not being the place for rainbows and glitterfarts and whatever else so buck up right?.....Then why is it when a Newb gets on here and only has 50 posts and says Yeah BFP all you wenches get your feelings hurt and tell her to go away? Pretty Hypocritical of you! You all get your Shiz in a bunch no matter what is said and or who says it! Yes, some people do, but not everyone.  Don't generalize.

    Congrats to those of you who will come up with something smart to say or post a sarcastic Gif or call me a twatwaffle or a Ho3 or whatever...go ahead I promise I am not going to sit behind me computer and cry about it! I think that there isnt one of you who would stand up to a pregnant woman face to face and rip her to shreds in a room full of people! (Holds up  Middle finger) I think you have some anger issues.

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    The whole newbie this is Bullspit!!! I am not 19 I have had a kid before I know the difference between a Vagina and a pocket rocket...this webpage was never created to be a source of hatred. I could care less what people call me.....And yes I have also created an AE so STFU to all you who say post under your real name...Its not going to happen because of Biztches like you!!! If you don't like us then why would you care what we think of you if you posted this under your regular screen name?

    TTGP is for those that are trying to get pregnant...some try for years some try for only a few weeks does that mean that the ones that have it happen sooner deserve hated for being happy? Who cares if they post it here of 1st Tri or on the Dad's board??? I am sorry some of you get so upset when you see that others are getting what you want. I don't get upset when others get their BFP. I just don't care if it's a random person who hasn't been around at all..but I would like to think that your hostility might be one of the things holding you back!

    If I walked up to a crowd of strangers and said hey guess what I found out I am pregnant today I am pretty Fluckin sure they wouldn't bash and harass me for being happy about it. Probably not, but they also wouldn't give a rats ass that you are pregnant...Even if they have been trying for a baby for 2+ years that is just classless...... You all look for reasons to get your feathers ruffled and it is funny to watch and read about. If there is one person not kissing someone else A$$ on this board then it is like the hounds have been released!

    You all comment about it not being the place for rainbows and glitterfarts and whatever else so buck up right?.....Then why is it when a Newb gets on here and only has 50 posts and says Yeah BFP all you wenches get your feelings hurt and tell her to go away? Pretty Hypocritical of you! You all get your Shiz in a bunch no matter what is said and or who says it! Yes, some people do, but not everyone.  Don't generalize.

    Congrats to those of you who will come up with something smart to say or post a sarcastic Gif or call me a twatwaffle or a Ho3 or whatever...go ahead I promise I am not going to sit behind me computer and cry about it! I think that there isnt one of you who would stand up to a pregnant woman face to face and rip her to shreds in a room full of people! (Holds up  Middle finger) I think you have some anger issues.

    You are right they probably wouldn't give a rats AZZ if I were pregnant but again they would be decent human beings and either smile and nod or say congrats I am happy for you or not say anything at all which clearly most of you have forgotten to do......

    I posted under an AE because it is easier than having women with too much time on their hands to stalk me on my original profile! I don't need your banter on my happy posts! 

    I might have some anger issues but doesnt everyone?  

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  • imageCancerCandy:

    You are right they probably wouldn't give a rats AZZ if I were pregnant but again they would be decent human beings and either smile and nod or say congrats I am happy for you or not say anything at all which clearly most of you have forgotten to do......

    I posted under an AE because it is easier than having women with too much time on their hands to stalk me on my original profile! I don't need your banter on my happy posts! 

    I might have some anger issues but doesnt everyone?  

    Sorry, I don't know what an AZZ is.  I'm 36 and can say ass.

    And you're right, they might smile and say congrats to your face, but then when you walk away they would comment on the crazy woman who decided to announce her pregnancy to anyone and everyone who would listen. I don't tear in to all the drive by's, I tend to just ignore them since I could not care less about the people who post them.

    Also, I don't stalk people's profiles. I have way too many other things to do.  As far as your anger issues, you clearly have your shorts in a bunch about something. I might get upset sometimes, but I don't rant and rave to a bunch of strangers on an internet message board.  It's really not worth getting that worked up over.

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  • imageSlapptastic:

    imageCancerCandy:

    ::snip::

    I might have some anger issues but doesnt everyone?  

    Uh, no.  Not everyone has anger issues.

    In complete seriousness and sincerity, maybe you should take a step back from the computer and go talk to a professional about these anger issues you have.

     

    This is funny! 

     

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  • imageSlapptastic:

    imageCancerCandy:

    ::snip::

    I might have some anger issues but doesnt everyone?  

    Uh, no.  Not everyone has anger issues.

    In complete seriousness and sincerity, maybe you should take a step back from the computer and go talk to a professional about these anger issues you have.

    My only issue is that I have seen you and others like you directly chose to try and make others feel bad! I have watched you tear someone down for asking a completely normal legit question, just because the girl was not a seasoned Veteran like some of you. That earned her tongue lashing  from all of you bullies! I hope that you dont raise you children to be those big mouthed, know it all, better than everyone girls you prob were in High School.

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    imageCancerCandy:
    imageSlapptastic:

    imageCancerCandy:

    ::snip::

    I might have some anger issues but doesnt everyone?  

    Uh, no.  Not everyone has anger issues.

    In complete seriousness and sincerity, maybe you should take a step back from the computer and go talk to a professional about these anger issues you have.

    My only issue is that I have seen you and others like you directly chose to try and make others feel bad! I have watched you tear someone down for asking a completely normal legit question, just because the girl was not a seasoned Veteran like some of you. That earned her tongue lashing  from all of you bullies! I hope that you dont raise you children to be those big mouthed, know it all, better than everyone girls you prob were in High School.

    Oh, are you talking about when you came on here asking for us to tell you how to change your siggy?

    If you recall correctly, I DID help you out.

    ETA:  Get your facts straight before bashing people.  Also, seriously, go get some help.  If you're so angry about a community that you were never even a part of, then you might need to really talk to someone.

    I asked for help with my Siggy on here and some people were nice to start with then jumped on the you dont belong here bc your preggers band wagon...Just saying....You were nice to me but then changed really quicky when all I said was a thank you!

    Nost sure I agree with all of Cancer's comments but I do agree with the meaness aspect of it not being nessisary.

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    The whole newbie this is Bullspit!!! I am not 19 I have had a kid before I know the difference between a Vagina and a pocket rocket...this webpage was never created to be a source of hatred. I could care less what people call me.....And yes I have also created an AE so STFU to all you who say post under your real name...Its not going to happen because of Biztches like you!!!

    TTGP is for those that are trying to get pregnant...some try for years some try for only a few weeks does that mean that the ones that have it happen sooner deserve hated for being happy? Who cares if they post it here of 1st Tri or on the Dad's board??? I am sorry some of you get so upset when you see that others are getting what you want...but I would like to think that your hostility might be one of the things holding you back!

    If I walked up to a crowd of strangers and said hey guess what I found out I am pregnant today I am pretty Fluckin sure they wouldn't bash and harass me for being happy about it...Even if they have been trying for a baby for 2+ years that is just classless...... You all look for reasons to get your feathers ruffled and it is funny to watch and read about. If there is one person not kissing someone else A$$ on this board then it is like the hounds have been released!

    You all comment about it not being the place for rainbows and glitterfarts and whatever else so buck up right?.....Then why is it when a Newb gets on here and only has 50 posts and says Yeah BFP all you wenches get your feelings hurt and tell her to go away? Pretty Hypocritical of you! You all get your Shiz in a bunch no matter what is said and or who says it!

    Congrats to those of you who will come up with something smart to say or post a sarcastic Gif or call me a twatwaffle or a Ho3 or whatever...go ahead I promise I am not going to sit behind me computer and cry about it! I think that there isnt one of you who would stand up to a pregnant woman face to face and rip her to shreds in a room full of people! (Holds up  Middle finger) 

    I'll bite in case this is directed at me for telling that one girl today that her bfp belonged on 1st tri or August. I congratulated her and politely told her why her post belonged somewhere else. I did not curse or call her names, or imply she didn't deserve her bfp (all things that you've done in your post), I just redirected her. And, props to her, she did come back and recognize why her posting here generated the responses it did. 

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    I might have some anger issues but doesnt everyone?  

    Uh, no.  Not everyone has anger issues.

    In complete seriousness and sincerity, maybe you should take a step back from the computer and go talk to a professional about these anger issues you have.

     

    Lol I have seen you bash an innocent person on here for asking a serious legit question!!! You bashed her for no reason other than to be mean and I am the one with Anger issues?

    My only issue is that people like you and your little posy get on here and bully people. Most of you women are in the late 20's to middle 30's and you still chose to act like those big mouthed, know it all, I am better than you girls you probably were in school!  Truth is you would more than likely never EVER say it to someone's face! And people like you will prob raise a child to act just as rude and stuck up as you make yourself out to be on here!

     

    Aw.  I'm sorry you feel that way.  Where exactly did I bash someone...?  I haven't been around much lately, but I do try to help people out when I can.  Does that make me a "know-it-all"?  I don't think so.  I don't know it all, and if I don't have an answer, then I won't reply.  Maybe you're confusing me with someone else...

    I was giving you honest advice here, just like I do for other honest posts.  If you feel that you have anger issues, maybe you should get some help.  I mean that in the most sincere and honest way possible.

    ETA: Nice AE fail, but I caught it before you edited...

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    ::snip::

    I might have some anger issues but doesnt everyone?  

    Uh, no.  Not everyone has anger issues.

    In complete seriousness and sincerity, maybe you should take a step back from the computer and go talk to a professional about these anger issues you have.

     

    Lol I have seen you bash an innocent person on here for asking a serious legit question!!! You bashed her for no reason other than to be mean and I am the one with Anger issues?

    My only issue is that people like you and your little posy get on here and bully people. Most of you women are in the late 20's to middle 30's and you still chose to act like those big mouthed, know it all, I am better than you girls you probably were in school!  Truth is you would more than likely never EVER say it to someone's face! And people like you will prob raise a child to act just as rude and stuck up as you make yourself out to be on here!

     

    Aw.  I'm sorry you feel that way.  Where exactly did I bash someone...?  I haven't been around much lately, but I do try to help people out when I can.  Does that make me a "know-it-all"?  I don't think so.  I don't know it all, and if I don't have an answer, then I won't reply.  Maybe you're confusing me with someone else...

    I was giving you honest advice here, just like I do for other honest posts.  If you feel that you have anger issues, maybe you should get some help.  I mean that in the most sincere and honest way possible.

    ETA: Nice AE fail, but I caught it before you edited...

    Nice catch! 

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    You did start out helpful but as soon as one person made the comment about me being pregnant asking for help on TTGP you jumped right in on that bandwagon as soon as you saw an opening. I dont agree with everything Cancer said but there is some validity to the general statement....


    Back to work now! Its almost lunch time!

    I agreed that it was inappropriate that you posted here, and I still do.&nbsp; Do I think that's it's so awful that I agreed with them?&nbsp; No.&nbsp; Your question got answered.&nbsp; You knew you didn't belong here.&nbsp; End of story. &nbsp;

    ETA:&nbsp; If you HAD been a part of this community, then you would have known that I generally am helpful.&nbsp; It's the idiots that have been coming on here complaining about every little thing, like yourself, that make me not want to help people.&nbsp; Seriously.&nbsp; You're complaining about a post that happened long enough ago that everyone had forgotten about it.&nbsp; You were never a part of this community - I personally don't think you have the right to complain.



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    The whole newbie this is Bullspit!!! I am not 19 I have had a kid before I know the difference between a Vagina and a pocket rocket...this webpage was never created to be a source of hatred. I could care less what people call me.....And yes I have also created an AE so STFU to all you who say post under your real name...Its not going to happen because of Biztches like you!!! If you don't like us then why would you care what we think of you if you posted this under your regular screen name?

    TTGP is for those that are trying to get pregnant...some try for years some try for only a few weeks does that mean that the ones that have it happen sooner deserve hated for being happy? Who cares if they post it here of 1st Tri or on the Dad's board??? I am sorry some of you get so upset when you see that others are getting what you want. I don't get upset when others get their BFP. I just don't care if it's a random person who hasn't been around at all..but I would like to think that your hostility might be one of the things holding you back!

    If I walked up to a crowd of strangers and said hey guess what I found out I am pregnant today I am pretty Fluckin sure they wouldn't bash and harass me for being happy about it. Probably not, but they also wouldn't give a rats ass that you are pregnant...Even if they have been trying for a baby for 2+ years that is just classless...... You all look for reasons to get your feathers ruffled and it is funny to watch and read about. If there is one person not kissing someone else A$$ on this board then it is like the hounds have been released!

    You all comment about it not being the place for rainbows and glitterfarts and whatever else so buck up right?.....Then why is it when a Newb gets on here and only has 50 posts and says Yeah BFP all you wenches get your feelings hurt and tell her to go away? Pretty Hypocritical of you! You all get your Shiz in a bunch no matter what is said and or who says it! Yes, some people do, but not everyone.  Don't generalize.

    Congrats to those of you who will come up with something smart to say or post a sarcastic Gif or call me a twatwaffle or a Ho3 or whatever...go ahead I promise I am not going to sit behind me computer and cry about it! I think that there isnt one of you who would stand up to a pregnant woman face to face and rip her to shreds in a room full of people! (Holds up  Middle finger) I think you have some anger issues.

    I am pretty sure they would offer a congratulations though. Funny how a regular will get congrats from a total newb even if they have just joined within days, yet when a newb posts their BFP the regs can not be bothered to do the same if they have not yet earned the coveted support we all so desire. Lame.
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    I might have some anger issues but doesnt everyone?  

    Uh, no.  Not everyone has anger issues.

    In complete seriousness and sincerity, maybe you should take a step back from the computer and go talk to a professional about these anger issues you have.

     

    Lol I have seen you bash an innocent person on here for asking a serious legit question!!! You bashed her for no reason other than to be mean and I am the one with Anger issues?

    My only issue is that people like you and your little posy get on here and bully people. Most of you women are in the late 20's to middle 30's and you still chose to act like those big mouthed, know it all, I am better than you girls you probably were in school!  Truth is you would more than likely never EVER say it to someone's face! And people like you will prob raise a child to act just as rude and stuck up as you make yourself out to be on here!

     


    ETA: Nice AE fail, but I caught it before you edited...

    Oh Slaps...I love you! 

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