I'm a regular poster here and I also chose to create an AE to ask a controversial question. What's with the "you're a NEWBIE" remark? Are we in high school again? Seriously.
Who the fluck cares how many post you have? Does that make you all knowing?
I fail to understand why people who sit on here for hours responding to up their post counts are any more "knowledgable" than anyone else. Doesn't make sense and it's very immature.
Can anyone enlighten me?
Re: Double standard
Spontaneous pregnancy #1
DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
If you thought your question was too controversial that you had to post on an AE, then why did you expect to get happy and polite answers?!?!
If you aren't open to honest conversation, then ask Dr. google.
TTC #1 Since Feb 2012
Me: 31, DH: 32
Bloodwork, HSG, and SA = All Good
RE Cycle #1: 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel, and TI = BFP on June 8!<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />
Beta #1 115, Beta #2 244, 8 week ultrasound shows one beautiful gummy bear and heartbeat!
If u can't handle it, I say then don't come here. People u don't know shouldn't be able to make u that upset or whatever. Lol. :-)
I like Tuesdays starting early; that way I can get to Friday quicker.
OP STU. Everyone knows newbs who post BFPs don't get sugar and rainbows; because, they haven't supported others and no one knows them.
I'm new here, I kind of understand where these AE posts are coming from.
I understand that you should read the newbie link first, many times so you don't miss something and ask a question that's been asked 1 million + times. I would find that irritating too if I'd been using the site for a long time.
What I don't understand is the unnecessary harshness used in several of the replies I read day in and day out. If you think the posters question is dumb, there is no need to be mean about it. I'm not saying baby people, but have a heart. If you don't like what they posted, why bother replying, unless of course if was offensive.
What if that person is having a really bad day and they missed something in the newbie link. What if they don't think the question is dumb. What if they are just really new to this site/ charting / TTC and don't really get it.
People view things differently and thats ok, I just really disagree with the way some people act on these boards.
That said, I haven't really had a bad experience yet, I've just read a lot of other peoples. Try not to take anything to heart on here.
Agree! Why is everyone so f**king butthurt tonight?! Is it because of the full moon?
Emma Kate - born 10.16.03 @ 29 weeks, weighed 1lb 13oz and 13.5" long.
TTC #3
Agreed.
TTC #1 since 10/2012.
BFP#1 11/28/12, MC, BFP #2 CP
BFP #3 10/21/2013, EDD 7/3/2014
Beta #1 (4W6D): 1768 Beta #2 (5W1D): 5255
1st US at 6W4D HB of 112 BPM!
1/20/2014: IT'S A GIRL!
6/30/2014: Happy birthday baby M!
Trying to get knocked up since June 2012 ~ Dx: PCOS
BFP 7.24.13 ~ EDD 4.2.14 ~ m/c 9.16.13 @ 11w4d
BFP 5.4.14 ~ EDD 1.12.15 ~ stick little bean!
TTGP 2013 Best Blog ~ Fruit ~ My BFP Chart
:::pats dachshunds head::::
you're cute. and not long for this board with this kind of post.
lots of
to my TBBFF Sothernpeach80 - BABY
ETHAN IS HERE! 02.04.13 
TTC #1 since Jan 2012
BFP #1 07/27/12 - EDD 04/07/13; C/P on 07/31/12
BFP #2 10/11/12 - EDD 06/24/13; Blighted Ovum; D&C 11/30/12
BFP #3 03/10/13 - EDD 11/17/13 - PLEASE BE OUR TAKE HOME BABY!
Beta #1 - 95.8 (12DPO); Beta #2 - 502 (15DPO); Beta #3 - 2003 (18DPO)
First U/S showed one beautiful baby measuring 7w1d with a HR of 148!!! Second U/S showed baby measuring 9w0d with a HR of 173!!!
My Ugly BFP Chart
“I know God won't give me anything I can't handle. I just wish he didn't trust me so much." -Mother Teresa
Does it take too long to type you?
Baby Chugging born 12.28.13
induction due to HELLP
I miss you, Lobos! I saw the cutest onesie the other day, it had a baby bottle on it and said, "I'll take a bottle of your finest white" haha perfection? I think so.
CLOMID: 4 rounds, 50mg + TI = BFN's. FEMARA: 1 round = no response
12-24-2012 : Laparoscopy, Softball sized cyst/endo/scar tissue removed.
Cycle #14 - Feb 2013 : 50mg clomid. Ovidrel Trigger. IUI on 2/14/13 = thin lining, multiple cysts.
Cycle #16 actively trying (May/June): Femara, TI = BFN
Cycle #17- #20 - Med/Treatment break, trying on our own = BFN's all around.
Cycle #21 - Femara, MORE Femara, Ovidrel and a Christmas IUI = BFN
I miss you too!!! I think of you often - I'm always a page away!
I LOVE THAT ONSIE! You MUST send me the link (if you can find it!!!) I also really missed my lush days over Thanksgiving. Everyone was drinking - I would've been plowed with the rest of em!
lots of
to my TBBFF Sothernpeach80 - BABY
ETHAN IS HERE! 02.04.13 
TTC #1 since Jan 2012
BFP #1 07/27/12 - EDD 04/07/13; C/P on 07/31/12
BFP #2 10/11/12 - EDD 06/24/13; Blighted Ovum; D&C 11/30/12
BFP #3 03/10/13 - EDD 11/17/13 - PLEASE BE OUR TAKE HOME BABY!
Beta #1 - 95.8 (12DPO); Beta #2 - 502 (15DPO); Beta #3 - 2003 (18DPO)
First U/S showed one beautiful baby measuring 7w1d with a HR of 148!!! Second U/S showed baby measuring 9w0d with a HR of 173!!!
My Ugly BFP Chart
“I know God won't give me anything I can't handle. I just wish he didn't trust me so much." -Mother Teresa
Come on OP post under your real name this is stupid.
Yup. Not 4 u tho. Lol
I get where this is coming from. If newer people lurked more, which if this is their first message board they may no realize that lurking is the best thing before posting, they'd catch the vibe of the board faster.
"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."- Aristotle
YGPM with the link
CLOMID: 4 rounds, 50mg + TI = BFN's. FEMARA: 1 round = no response
12-24-2012 : Laparoscopy, Softball sized cyst/endo/scar tissue removed.
Cycle #14 - Feb 2013 : 50mg clomid. Ovidrel Trigger. IUI on 2/14/13 = thin lining, multiple cysts.
Cycle #16 actively trying (May/June): Femara, TI = BFN
Cycle #17- #20 - Med/Treatment break, trying on our own = BFN's all around.
Cycle #21 - Femara, MORE Femara, Ovidrel and a Christmas IUI = BFN
I love when posts like this come out and newbs think it's okay to b!tch away on the thread. lol, like it's safe or something...
silly silly noobs
BFP#1: 08/30/12 EDD 04/30/12 m/c 09/04/12 6wks
BFP#2: 01/27/13 EDD 10/06/13 missed m/c 02/25/13 9wks
BFP#3: 10/30/13 EDD 07/05/14 Our little dude was born on 07/10/14 @ 2:19p
I can't believe posts like this still happen. Really OP and others who think people are too harsh, if you don't like the comments and replies you get, maybe this isn't the place for you. There are tons of other sites that spew the love...try babygaga.
I have learned a great deal from this site, because you get told the truth here. Not some sugar coated answer you are hoping for.
The whole newbie this is Bullspit!!! I am not 19 I have had a kid before I know the difference between a Vagina and a pocket rocket...this webpage was never created to be a source of hatred. I could care less what people call me.....And yes I have also created an AE so STFU to all you who say post under your real name...Its not going to happen because of Biztches like you!!!
TTGP is for those that are trying to get pregnant...some try for years some try for only a few weeks does that mean that the ones that have it happen sooner deserve hated for being happy? Who cares if they post it here of 1st Tri or on the Dad's board??? I am sorry some of you get so upset when you see that others are getting what you want...but I would like to think that your hostility might be one of the things holding you back!
If I walked up to a crowd of strangers and said hey guess what I found out I am pregnant today I am pretty Fluckin sure they wouldn't bash and harass me for being happy about it...Even if they have been trying for a baby for 2+ years that is just classless...... You all look for reasons to get your feathers ruffled and it is funny to watch and read about. If there is one person not kissing someone else A$$ on this board then it is like the hounds have been released!
You all comment about it not being the place for rainbows and glitterfarts and whatever else so buck up right?.....Then why is it when a Newb gets on here and only has 50 posts and says Yeah BFP all you wenches get your feelings hurt and tell her to go away? Pretty Hypocritical of you! You all get your Shiz in a bunch no matter what is said and or who says it!
Congrats to those of you who will come up with something smart to say or post a sarcastic Gif or call me a twatwaffle or a Ho3 or whatever...go ahead I promise I am not going to sit behind me computer and cry about it! I think that there isnt one of you who would stand up to a pregnant woman face to face and rip her to shreds in a room full of people! (Holds up Middle finger)
You are right they probably wouldn't give a rats AZZ if I were pregnant but again they would be decent human beings and either smile and nod or say congrats I am happy for you or not say anything at all which clearly most of you have forgotten to do......
I posted under an AE because it is easier than having women with too much time on their hands to stalk me on my original profile! I don't need your banter on my happy posts!
I might have some anger issues but doesnt everyone?
Sorry, I don't know what an AZZ is. I'm 36 and can say ass.
And you're right, they might smile and say congrats to your face, but then when you walk away they would comment on the crazy woman who decided to announce her pregnancy to anyone and everyone who would listen. I don't tear in to all the drive by's, I tend to just ignore them since I could not care less about the people who post them.
Also, I don't stalk people's profiles. I have way too many other things to do. As far as your anger issues, you clearly have your shorts in a bunch about something. I might get upset sometimes, but I don't rant and rave to a bunch of strangers on an internet message board. It's really not worth getting that worked up over.
This is funny!
My only issue is that I have seen you and others like you directly chose to try and make others feel bad! I have watched you tear someone down for asking a completely normal legit question, just because the girl was not a seasoned Veteran like some of you. That earned her tongue lashing from all of you bullies! I hope that you dont raise you children to be those big mouthed, know it all, better than everyone girls you prob were in High School.
I asked for help with my Siggy on here and some people were nice to start with then jumped on the you dont belong here bc your preggers band wagon...Just saying....You were nice to me but then changed really quicky when all I said was a thank you!
Nost sure I agree with all of Cancer's comments but I do agree with the meaness aspect of it not being nessisary.
I'll bite in case this is directed at me for telling that one girl today that her bfp belonged on 1st tri or August. I congratulated her and politely told her why her post belonged somewhere else. I did not curse or call her names, or imply she didn't deserve her bfp (all things that you've done in your post), I just redirected her. And, props to her, she did come back and recognize why her posting here generated the responses it did.
О Привязать! Z!
BFP#1: 08/30/12 EDD 04/30/12 m/c 09/04/12 6wks
BFP#2: 01/27/13 EDD 10/06/13 missed m/c 02/25/13 9wks
BFP#3: 10/30/13 EDD 07/05/14 Our little dude was born on 07/10/14 @ 2:19p
Nice catch!
I'm mobile bumping and stuffing my face so I'm just going to cosign everything Slaps said. You become a bigger ass with each post SouthernSunflower.
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
Oh Slaps...I love you!