Been a lurker for awhile here but wanted to say hello. We are so happy to have matched with a wonderful BM and waiting for the baby to be born in just a few short months. Is it normal that I am SO nervous that it wont go through? I feel so pessimistic despite any blatant reasons to be..Have any of you felt that way if you have gone through it? I am so afraid to get outwardly excited in order to protect my emotions. I hope I'm not alone here. Thanks in advance for your reassurance and experience.