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On Wednesday I started to experience cramping and bleeding. My hcg levels were in the 300s while I was told I was 8 weeks. I returned to the ER last night because the bleeding increased and so did the cramping. My hcg levels are down to 150.
I am experiencing "inevitable miscarriage" according to my discharge paperwork. I am devastated and feel empty and heartbroken. DH has been amazing through it all. I am trying to take comfort in knowing there is nothing anyone could do to prevent this.
Unfortunatly we did find out SS knew of the baby so now while dealing with the loss we have to think of a way to explain this to him.

BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012

BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013

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  • IcarusalsoflewIcarusalsoflew member

    image*HiS ChAmAoLe GiRL*:
    On Wednesday I started to experience cramping and bleeding. My hcg levels were in the 300s while I was told I was 8 weeks. I returned to the ER last night because the bleeding increased and so did the cramping. My hcg levels are down to 150. I am experiencing "inevitable miscarriage" according to my discharge paperwork. I am devastated and feel empty and heartbroken. DH has been amazing through it all. I am trying to take comfort in knowing there is nothing anyone could do to prevent this. Unfortunatly we did find out SS knew of the baby so now while dealing with the loss we have to think of a way to explain this to him.

    I just happened to be lurking today but I couldn't open this up and not send you my heartfelt condolences. I'm so sorry that you're going through this. Right Hug (creepy internet hugs.)

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  • karleegirlkarleegirl member
    I'm so sorry.
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  • Holly_1007Holly_1007 member
    I wish "I'm sorry" was enough, but I've got nothing else... thinking of you
                           
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  • Littlejen22Littlejen22 member
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    I am so sorry. The Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss board is amazing. They have been so helpful to me. This is "club" I would not wish on any one. I am praying for you and your family.


    I do recommend joining a board if you have to talk. I am so sorry for your loss
    Jen - Mom to two December 12 babies Nathaniel 12/12/06 and Addison 12/12/08
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  • KaeldrasmommyKaeldrasmommy member
    You've been in my thoughts today. I'm so sorry that you're going through this, I can't even begin to imagine.
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  • WahooWahoo member
    So sorry for your loss.
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  • FutureMrsWittigFutureMrsWittig member

    I'm so sorry.  Praying you find peace for your hearts.

    Mama of 2: one who grew in my womb, both who grow in my heart.
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  • hopankahopanka member
    I am very sorry for your loss. I am sure it must be extra difficult now that SS knows and you may have to answer some questions to him. Hugs to you!
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  • +just+j++just+j+ member
    I'm so sorry Cham.  Lots of T&P's your way.
    "he offered her the world. she said she had her own" - poet Monique Duval
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  • cole2144cole2144 member
    So sorry for your loss.
    No one else will ever know the strength of my love for you. After all, you are the only one who knows what my heart sounds like from the inside.
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  • SueBearSueBear member
    So sorry for your loss.  T&P for you, H and SS.
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