If so is it for certain things such as cuddling with mom etc etc
Or is it random?
I think H is very random... Sometimes. For example the last week or so ill tell her to go with dad and she won't want to .. at.all. She'll cry and run to me and it breaks my heart. TODAY though, she decided that evey time I asked for a kiss she would jerk away from me and give one to dad instead. Which was cute and made up for the running away she did earlier in the week ;
These kids are hilarious!
Re: Does LO prefer one parent?
If he's hurt, sick, or tired it's all about Mama.
If he's feeling okay it's all about Daddy.
If Grandpa, or Great Grandpa are around, Mom and Dad might as well not exist! Lol
Aidan never seemed to care which parent he went to. When he was sick he'd definitely prefer me, but he'd always go to anyone.
dylan has always preferred me. He's the biggest mamas boy you've ever met. If I leave the house without him he loses it. I kinda love it sometimes but other times when I'm really busy and can't give him the attention he wants, it's really hard.
Don't be nervous! That's how H and I were... Separated from march till June and we saw each other in between or we stayed at the hotel with him. Everything will be fine I promise! I also had H talk to DH a few times in the phone , it was nice for both of them.