TTC After a Loss

SIL's suck (pg mentioned,not mine)

We went to DH's youngest sister's house to visit with her, her new husband, my other SIL who is home from S. Dakota. The first SIL is KU, doesnt watch the kid she's got is clueless. Well, a couple of their friends showed up, one who is also very KU. Of course they started talking about pregnancy my lovely SIL asked her KU sister "you didnt want this baby, did you?". Cue a text to DH who is outside with the guys that says "IM READY TO GO KNOW". So as soon as he walked in I got up to leave. Sarah (n dakota SIL) looked all offended was like "you're leaving?" DH played it off saying I had to work tomorrow. She was like "well, bye" she has no idea that it was for her sake that we left b/c she was going to go back to ND with a black eye. Sorry this got long I'm on my phone so there's probably grammer issues but thanks for letting me vent.

 

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  • Wow, some people are so rude... I'm so sorry I had to deal with such an inconsiderate, tactless SIL. ((hugs))
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  • Eew how gross of her. I'm so sorry. [[[Hugs]]]


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  • What's so bad is that she knows about my m/c. Think before you speak. Really.
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  • That is disgusting behaviour. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. I'm glad your husband is so good about it though. Big ((hugs))


  • WTF?!?!  Why would anyone say that?  Maybe a black eye wouldn't have been so bad.  I'm so sorry you had to listen to that. 
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  • Ugh, EK, that just sucks. I'm glad your DH was so understanding

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  • I'm sorry you had to deal with that. Glad your DH was understanding and took you home. HUGS

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  • I am so sorry you had to deal with that. Some people are just so stupid and will never understand. I am glad though that DH was understanding and took you home! hugs!!
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  • Thanks, ladies. I was already upset b/c my SIL is even pregnant & I was having to look at her growing belly. I just dont understand why anyone would say something like that.
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  • What a b!tch, I'm sorry!
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    Thanks, ladies. I was already upset b/c my SIL is even pregnant & I was having to look at her growing belly. I just dont understand why anyone would say something like that.

    They just don't think.  It's the only explanation I can come up with.  The way she behaved was just despicable.  I'm sorry :(  Glad that you were able to get out of there.

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  • UGH!!! How terrible some people are! I am dealing with my own SIL baby issues right now and to be honest I don't know how much longer I can just walk away or hold it in :( 

    Big hugs to you, hun! 

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