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danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member
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How did the U/S go today? You've been in my thoughts all day...
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"You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was." 
        -- Abraham Lincoln
 

                           Me:39  MH:39 
DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

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  • hydrangeagirlhydrangeagirl member

    Thank you Daniele; you are so very kind and sweet.  Sadly, I am going to m/c. The OB did the u/s and of course only saw a yolk sac that started to disintegrate.  We were expecting this result since my HCG levels were so bad.  We prayed and prayed for a good outcome, but this was not our time.

    I have scheduled a D & C for next Tuesday.  I was going to m/c naturally, but we need to move on from this and not prolong the inevitable.  We are very sad about this but believe everything happens for a reason.  Once I get my period, we will try again and hope & pray for a BFP again and a successful pregnancy.  

    Thank you all for your kindness, compassion, and support; you are all amazing ladies.  I admire the courage and strength of so many of the woman on this board; reading your journeys over these past couple of months gives me all the hope in the world that I will be back here again.  

    In the meantime, I wish all you lovely ladies happy and healthy pregnancies, and beautiful little babies that you will love and cherish for a lifetime. 

    Me, 41; DH 38; TTC since July 2012, 1st round of Clomid, BFP on 10/19, what an incredible blessing!  M/c on 7w3d; D&C on 11/30; 4th round of Clomid 100mg = BFP on 04/19!!! M/c #2 at 7w; D&C on 5/30, then repeat D&C on 7/1.  Saline u/s on 8/2, uterus looks great!  Will start TTC in 09/13 w/ Clomid 100mg. Surprise natural BFP on 8/25!!! Beta #1=95, #2=182, #3=404!  EDD 5/4/13...Grow baby grow!


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  • danuli8danuli8 member
    imagehydrangeagirl:

    Thank you Daniele; you are so very kind and sweet.  Sadly, I am going to m/c. The OB did the u/s and of course only saw a yolk sac that started to disintegrate.  We were expecting this result since my HCG levels were so bad.  We prayed and prayed for a good outcome, but this was not our time.

    I have scheduled a D & C for next Tuesday.  I was going to m/c naturally, but we need to move on from this and not prolong the inevitable.  We are very sad about this but believe everything happens for a reason.  Once I get my period, we will try again and hope & pray for a BFP again and a successful pregnancy.  

    Thank you all for your kindness, compassion, and support; you are all amazing ladies.  I admire the courage and strength of so many of the woman on this board; reading your journeys over these past couple of months gives me all the hope in the world that I will be back here again.  

    In the meantime, I wish all you lovely ladies happy and healthy pregnancies, and beautiful little babies that you will love and cherish for a lifetime. 

    I am so very sorry that your pregnancy is not progressing. Lots of peace and love to you, and I hope I will get to see the pretty purple hydrangeas in your icon again soon announcing a healthy sticky bean. Sending hugs...Right Hug 

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    Over-40 parents...what we lack in vigor, we make up for with cunning.
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  • MrsNukemMrsNukem member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you are back on this board soon.

    Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
    BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13;
    BFP#2 11/2011, CP
    FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
    IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F
    ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3
    Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum
    IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F
    ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+)
    Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
    Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!

     
     

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  • Tigger & poohTigger & pooh member
    I am really sorry losses are so difficult
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  • TX-BrideTX-Bride member
    So sorry for your loss. Hope to see you back here soon again. I hope I am not overstepping my boundaries but check with your dr when you are ready to try again. I know you are very eager to try immediately, but I had two drs tell me the samething when I miscarried, one said to wait 3 cycles, and the other said 6 cycles, it reduced your chances for miscarriage. Either way I wish you best of luck and a fast recovery from D&C.
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  • lovelyday39lovelyday39 member
    I am so sorry for your loss and that you have to go through all of this. :( (hug)

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  • danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member
    D@mn. I am so sorry it didn't work out this time. It sounds like you are doing everything you need to do, though, to mourn the loss so that you can move forward. I got pregnant 2 months after my chemical. I hope you have the same luck. I know it may not seem like it now, but there is some good news-- you know that you can get pregnant. That was a huge relief for me to remember; I hope it helps you, as well.

    ((hugs)) Hope to see you back here soon.
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    "You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was." 
            -- Abraham Lincoln
     

                               Me:39  MH:39 
    DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
    TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

    <a href="http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3a2798" style="font-size:smaller;" >
    <br /> My Ovulation Chart</a>
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  • Country Girl in the CityCountry Girl in the City
    I am so sorry for your loss.
    BFP on IVF #2 6/29/2012. Beta #1 7/3 = 522; Beta #2 = 1180; Beta #3 = 6491 image BabyFruit Ticker
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  • ShellBear+ShellBear+ member
    I'm so very sorry for your loss. Take care and hope to see you back soon.
    TTC since Dec. 2010. Me: 37, DH: 38...unexplained RPL
    BFP #1 - missed m/c 4.18.11 found @8w3d, d&c @13w 
    BFP #2 blighted ovum found 8.2011 @8w, misoprostol
    BFP#3 - missed m/c 6.11.12 @ 9w3d, d&c revealed extra chromosome 15
    BFP#4 8.10.12, DD born 4/26/13
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  • StrunellaStrunella member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  Unfortunately, I've been there and I know how much it hurts.  Take the time you need to heal, and hopefully you'll be back on here before you know it.
     
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  • Fitnessteach2010Fitnessteach2010 member
    I'm sooooo sorry. hugs
    m/c #1 6/30/05 m/c #2 9/18/06 m/c #3 9/18/08 BFP 10/21/12....EDD 7/6/13....Praying this is my sticky baby. Code snippet: HTML, Used for websites, email and some forums. Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
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  • rebaannrebaann member
    I am so very sorry.
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    Cycle 12, IUI #1 - 33m post wash 10/15/10 = BFN
    Cycle 13, IUI #2 - 15m post wash 11/16/10 = BFP, missed m/c, D&C 1/3/11
    Cycle 15 - 18, IUI #3-6 = BFN
    Cycle 20, IUI #7 = BFP!, missed m/c 9/14, D&C
    DE-IVF Aug. 2012: ER 8/30 11R, 7M, 4F; ET 9/4 returned 2
    Beta 9/18 #1-820, #2-1699, #3-7124
    10/1 1st u/s measuring right on track, 125 bpm

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  • dhreczuckdhreczuck member
    I'm so sorry hydrangeagirl, take care of yourself and really hope to see you back soon..
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    Me 41 DH 46  Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test. TTC #2 **5th cycle 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
    ** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy is due 04/28/13!!     Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

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