I can't stand my ILs. They drive me insane. My MIL kind of means well, but completely disregards what others want for their kids and is very irresponsible. Once, she let my nephew eat nothing but popsicles the entire day he was with her. Seriously?!? I have no problem with grandparents spoiling their grandchildren-- I get it. But she makes comments like, "I'll give you 50 cents if you give Grammy a kiss." Yes, that's a lesson I want my kids to learn-- hold out on giving affection to a woman who wants to babysit you and spend time with you because she loves you so you can get cash.
There is no way I would keep her from seeing and spending time with her future grandchild, but man-- I'm not looking forward to this!
I wouldn't even be thinking about this, but my MIL asked me the other day if I was going to let her see the baby. (I'm glad she thinks I'm the type of person who would deny my children a relationship with their grandparents! It's not like I tell her any of the stuff I really feel about her! I'm the greatest actress in the world!)
Anyone else having some dread about this?