If you look up the word understanding

Williamandshawnna

in the dictionary you will find this board as the definition. All of you ladies are so supportive and understanding when one of us has to take a break, or needs a little time to just read and not always respond. Not to mention the amazing sisterhood that develops. Thank you all for that. I have been trying to keep up with reading posts but my head just has not been in the game and I know so many of you understand.

And because I know you will understand.

I never thought it would happen to me, I never thought I would be the one with a support person to say, get over it, move on, you just have to live with it. But we never think it will happen to us until it actually does right? I am still so pissed off about this being said to me. How can someone comment on another persons grief process? Unreal.

And our due date is 11/14. Not sure right now how I am going to handle that day.

OK, rant over. No real point to this other to vent and thank you all for your support.

 

tracint

Our due date was on 11/4 and it was pretty difficult I cried all day and it felt like it was just happening all over again... but I made it through and so will you. Lots of hugs, thoughts, and prayers going your way this week.And remember you're not alone. Even though none of us wanted to be in the situations we're in... we're all in this together. Like you said these ladies have offered so many caring and kind words and support that couldnt come at a more perfect time and we'll all be here for you too.

starburst0928

In no way should anyone ever say that to another unless they have been through it themselves. And even then, they probably shouldn't. I'm really sorry someone said that to you. I'll be thinking of you as your due date approaches. Vent about anything on here! We'll listen! 

jbranden12

((hugs)). due dates are hard, as is being judged in your grief.

Williamandshawnna

Thank you starburst. The sad thing is, the person did have a loss. So I thought that person was my safe person to understand. Guess not.

Thanks for the support.

Williamandshawnna

Thank you ladies so much for all of your kind words. It is so tough being judged. At work I have 3 male assistants. Kinda hard to explain to them that the old me isn't coming back and that this holiday will be very tough. They try to understand, But I know they will eventually start to wonder why I am not "getting over it".