I would absolutely recommend "Because I Loved You" by Patricia Dischler. Patricia placed her baby for adoption in the mid-80s, and the book is a memoir of what it was like for her during pregnancy and after the adoption. She now has an open adoption with her (adult) son and his family. It is a really good book.
You could also check out "Dear Birthmother" - it has excerpts from letters written by adoptive parents, adoptees, and birthmothers to the other members in their adoption triad, and has a lot of good information about how open adoption got started, etc.
Re: adoption books
I would absolutely recommend "Because I Loved You" by Patricia Dischler. Patricia placed her baby for adoption in the mid-80s, and the book is a memoir of what it was like for her during pregnancy and after the adoption. She now has an open adoption with her (adult) son and his family. It is a really good book.
You could also check out "Dear Birthmother" - it has excerpts from letters written by adoptive parents, adoptees, and birthmothers to the other members in their adoption triad, and has a lot of good information about how open adoption got started, etc.
Secret Thoughts of an Adoptive Mother
A Love Like No Other
The Open Adoption Book by Bruce Rappaport