My BFF sent out the evite for her son's baptism. They invited a ton of people. They always do for similar events. In the response there wasn't a spot for a plus one and H wasn't on the list that I could find. He would normally be invited. Is there a tactful way I can ask about this? Would you assume it was an oversight or that he's not invited?

Then and now. How did my boy get so big?
Re: Baptism etiquette