i saw a post earlier about black friday and am wondering when i should start buying things. when is it 'safe' or 'smart' i guess i should say. also, what are some good things to buy early? i'm 5wks tomorrow. this is my very first pregnancy and im excited. thanks!
Re: when to start shopping for baby
I basically said this same thing in the Black Friday post, but for me, it's way too early. It's a personal decision, of course, but right now my main concern is getting through first tri safely. There's tons of time to shop after that.
We haven't really thought about the timeline for this, actually, I just know it's not the right time yet for us. I'm pretty certain we'll be getting some small baby items from my parents at Christmas, but other than that we'll probably wait until we see what kinds of hand-me-down things we'll receive, and I would imagine I won't start planning the nursery until after we find out the sex, although we want to keep things fairly gender-neutral either way.
DS born at 34 weeks with (surprise!) gastroschisis turned short bowel syndrome.
131 days in the NICU, 7 trips to the OR, G-button, daily TPN....
always my babies
It's up to you, really.
Last time I waited until we were about 20 weeks before purchasing anything. I was afraid of buying a lot of baby gear and then losing the baby and having all this stuff lying around to remind me.
BFP #1 5/07/11, DS 01/19/12
BFP #2 08/09/12, M/C 08/10/12
BFP #3 10/30/12, EDD 07/11/12...please stick!
I will likely wait until 20 weeks to register and will likely buy stuff then. But, I have totally started a Pintrest page to track what I want!
Also, I am starting to save money. People sometimes say stock up on gift cards but I prefer to stock away savings! Then when I want to buy something I have the money!
BFP #2 03/08/11 EDD 11/16/11 DD Born on 11/04/11
BFP #3 08/29/12 EDD 05/06/13 M/C on 08/30/12
BFP #4 11/01/12 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C on 12/28/12
BFP #5 04/30/13 EDD 01/03/14 DS Born on 01/02/14
BFP #6 01/11/15 EDD 09/22/15 M/C 03/09/15
Thankfully this fun fabric I want to use isn't available to January so it'll make me wait.
But I want to start looking for furniture deals. :]
I'll have a hard time waiting for a shower! Hehe
BFP #1 on 8/11/12 | natural m/c at 5 weeks
BFP #2 on 10/20/12 | due 6/28/13
I started shopping before my bfp. I like taking advantage of coupons and I'm in the school of thought of thinking positive. I realize the risks right now, but it's not like I'm giving up. And worst case scenario, we'll adopt. In the end, I'm going to need some baby things and I remember all too well lsat time how quickly things creep up. And also know that some of my friends were stuck in bed and weren't able to get things like they planned.