mini update

brighteyes2123

I finally got state medical, I have my first u/s and doctor's appointment Tuesday afternoon. I'm excited, to hear the new peanut's heartbeat. And also to prove to DH [whether he comes or not] that this second baby is his. Earlier this week he didn't come out and say it, but he basically accused me of cheating while I was out of town in August. I'm still feeling hurt and broken up about it, but just looking after DS, myself and the unborn baby! It's harder somedays, but I keep going... anyhow, looking forward to finding out how far along I actually am. We think right now I'm 12 weeks, almost 13... thanks for reading :] oh, one other thing, DS is one in 19 days eeek!

Kaeldrasmommy

I think I must have missed the background know this one, I don't remember you mentioning having problems. I'm sorry, it sounds like your DH is being a douche canoe.

brighteyes2123

Our anniversary was a bust back on October 21st and things have sorta been worse ever since. Partly because we haven't seen his daughter since September sometime... and her mother isn't allowing visits anytime soon.

valerieanne9015

Well I hope this appt takes any doubts out of your DH's mind, and things return to normal.  Congrats, so exciting to hear the heartbeat for the first time!!

JamiesWife2010

Yay for the dr. appointment! Hearing the heartbeat was always the best part!

I hope you & your DH can work through whatever issues there are. I can't even imagine what I'd do if my DH accused me of cheating & being pregnant with a baby that isn't his.

Best of luck!

 

bmcapra

Ugh, that stinks that this is supposed to be a happy time and now you have to deal with him thinking you cheated. What would even put that idea in his head?

But yay for getting to see the babe! I loved hearing the heatbeat too! Such a little miracle!

Kaeldrasmommy

brighteyes2123:

Our anniversary was a bust back on October 21st and things have sorta been worse ever since. Partly because we haven't seen his daughter since September sometime... and her mother isn't allowing visits anytime soon.

That's right. I'm sorry, I forgot that was you. He really needs to pull his head out and quit trying to ruin the good times. Feel free to tell him I think he's being an azz, and it wouldn't be you calling him one.

brighteyes2123

Thanks all. I'm really trying to enjoy this pregnancy with him since we're together and not apart this time around... so it's frustrating. I guess he figures my BFF, a guy who I liked until I found out was gay, but who might see me as the only woman he could've ever pictured himself with... ugh, whatever, we've never done anything and I only saw him for a few hours with DS!

On another note, DH is now wanting to go down to visit my family for Thanksgiving and celebrate DS's birthday. I think he might want me to invite friend out and he can confront him... I really don't know DH's thinking atm.