Ncchnat

sparkymcgeee

Holy crap. I just caught up with the drama on first tri. Thank you for calling that woman out on what she said. Obviously she doesn't get it. I'm sorry you had to do that but I appreciate that it was done. If any of that makes sense. 

Xles10

I wanna catch up on the drama. Which post is it? Better yet, can I get a link?

sparkymcgeee

ncchnat:

Yeah. I followed it because I wanted to see if she would come back with a real apology. Unfortunately not.

 

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/69619055.aspx

 

ETA: It looks like she posted an apology. Honestly, after my call-out, I haven't been back to First Tri because it all seems so ridiculous and I don't need to lose my temper like that often.

Now I feel kind of bad for calling her a twatwaffle... 

Meh, don't feel too bad. She needed to be called out on it and maybe the strong reaction was exactly what she needed to see so she would kind of get it.

People say awful, insensitive, inappropriate things when you have a m/c. She's lucky she's never had to experience that. Unfortunately you and I and others here are not. I'm constantly worried about this pregnancy. I had a daughter after my m/c and I still worry. You still think what if. 

A loss is a loss. If that person lost their mother no one would say, 'well it's probably for the best.' Or 'God knows better than we do.' They would say, 'I'm so sorry.' A miscarriage should be no different.

i remember I was devastated by my m/c. Stayed in bed for at least a week. Didn't want to see or talk to anyone. The day I ventured out into the world a woman who had been successful SIX times with no losses said to me, 'if you didn't want it so badly you never even would have known you were pregnant. You just would have thought you got your period.' I told her that of course I knew I was pregnant and it wasn't just like a period. Then she asked me to babysit. Point is, some people will just never get it. 

KikiCohen

I can't believe that other people are defending her actions.  Seriously? 

HappySweetLuv

Hi: Sorry to interrupt the conversation.

NCC, how do I send PMs? Help!

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HappySweetLuv

HappySweetLuv:

Hi: Sorry to interrupt the conversation.

NCC, how do I send PMs? Help!

Thanks.

Sorry, diregard my post, I mistook you for another NCC that's also on board.