Scrotum Sunday. [rant]
AngLK987
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Kind of like Testes Tuesday.
Today started out great, MH & I took DD to church, came home & had lunch together. I had planned this afternoon to get some studying done, so I packed up all my books, printed out what work I needed to do and spent all afternoon (From 2-7:30) at the Library on campus. I called on my way home, MH said that DD was bathed, in her jammies and all ready for bed, and asked if I wanted her to stay up until I got home. I said unless she was overtired then yes, I'd like to see her before bed. I came home, got the groceries in the refrigerator and put my supper in the microwave then sat down to play with DD for awhile, I nursed her for a few minutes, then asked MH to take her up to bed so I could get supper. First off he gave me attitude about not wanting to take her upstairs, then as he was getting ready to go up he turned to DD and said "Well, I guess your mommy doesn't want to spend time with you". WHATTHEFUCK? Do not give me a guilt trip because trust me, I would MUCH rather spend 5 hours playing with DD than doing homework and studying but me going back to school was his idea in the first place. I got up rip-***-pissed and took her upstairs myself. Took me all of 30 seconds to snuggle with her and get her to sleep in her crib, and yes, I know, it didn't kill me or anything to take her up, in fact I'd gladly have done it if he would have said it in a nicer way. but A)He's playing Car Town on Facebook, and 
BS Guilt trips? Seriously? We've resorted to this? It makes me so angry I can't even form coherent sentences.
I told him as much, and he blatantly told me he's not sorry and doesn't regret saying it.
I told him I'm still pissed about it, and if he ever says anything like that to our daughter when she's old enough to comprehend it. I will go apeshit.
Sorry for the rant. Thanks for listening.
Re: Scrotum Sunday. [rant]
I'm so sorry, AngLK! And I can't believe he doesn't regret saying something that hurt you and upset you so much! What a prick! That's completely unfair. I strongly recommend bringing it up again once everyone's tempers have settled and he's had time to reflect on why it's inappropriate. I hope he can at the very least understand that statements like that when your DD is older could really cause some (unwarranted) psychological damage.
On the bright side, I'm glad you got the time to get caught up on your work and I hope that you don't feel quite as overwhelmed on that front now.
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