Hi Ladies, I am a lurker here from 2nd tri.nbsp; I have been debating about whether or not to ask my question on this board so here goes.
My DH and I are supposed to find out next month about if our baby is a boy or a girl.nbsp; My concern is that the same week is the first anniversary of his daughters death.nbsp; She was 28 and his youngest.nbsp;nbsp; I am concerned that his grief and depression will come back with a vengance when he sees the baby on the ultrasound.nbsp;I am also worried that, if the baby is a girl, that he will come to resent her all because of the timing of the test.nbsp; Would you recommend I reschedule for a better time for him?nbsp; Or do you think I am just not giving him enough credit for how strong he is?nbsp;
I have spoken with him about thisnbsp;twice.nbsp; Both times henbsp;seemednbsp;to just brush it off.nbsp; He says that we will be fine. I know that we, our relationship, will be fine. It is his state of mind that worries me.nbsp; After her passing, he came very close to committing suicide and I am selfish enough to want to avoid that if at all possible.nbsp;nbsp;Your thoughts and input would be greatly appreciated. nbsp;nbsp;
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