You have a private message! I saw your post below about the 1 year coming up and I'm in a similar situation with the loss of one twin and a birthday coming up soon. I PM'd you because it's been awhile since since you posted!
TTC #1 since 4/09
2/21/11: IVF #1 Begins and results in TWINS!
11/4/11: The twins are born at 36w4d!
11/5/11: We said goodbye to our sweet baby girl as she was born with multiple complications and a severe heart defect, Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome.