Im sorry to be asking a question, but I need advice. I started my job in July and share an office with a lady who started the month before me. Since then we have become friends but she is pretty private. The past few weeks she has been crying and finally let me know today that she lost her baby boy last year. I have a son that is her sons age and I have pictures up all over. I'm sure I've made insensitive comments about how hard it is having him. No one at work knew about her son. My sister was stillborn 17 years ago and my family still misses her greatly my mom loves when people remember Grace and I'd love to do something for my coworker.
I would really like to do something to honor her baby boy since she has trusted me enough to tell me about him but am unsure what to do since I haven't known her very long. She is wonderful and I want to do somethig as long as it wouldn't hurt her more. I was thinking jewelry but really have no idea what would be best.
Also, is there anything I should do to avoid hurting her? She asks about DS every morning so I think avoiding talking about him would hurt her like I'm trying to avoid her/change the way we interact.
Thank you so much for any advice you may give.
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