Okay, I realize this may be a weird question, but what type of pain did you feel after your c-section? Was it like really bad menstrual cramping, or more related to the incision? I know some people have an easy recovery (usually if the c-section was planned), and some people say the recovery was awful. If you had a bad recovery, what did "bad" mean?
I am asking because I'm trying to prepare myself for my c-section. There is still time for my twins to change positions, but it is unlikely that they will. I am okay with the surgery, but I think it will be a little easier on me if I know what to expect.
Thanks!
Re: Recovery question
Mine was planned.
I supposed once I was home about a week, I was really quite fine. I haven't had any issues since the surgery.
However, the hospital recovery was horrible. The incision hurt quite a bit from the pulling, but the gas pains took my breath away. They were AWFUL.
Once I was on my feet, though, and the gas pains were gone, things were tolerable. By the day I was released, I was doing OK. I still took it very easy for another month, but overall, I guess I was OK. It did take another week or so to be able to turn over in bed semi-comfortably.
I also went into the ER the night of my release with a 104 degree fever from a bladder infection (from the catheter), and that sucked.
I hated my experience for multiple reasons, but I healed well in the end.
This. I have a friend who likes to "show off" that she was out mowing the lawn a week after her section. She thinks this is great, but personally, I think it's just plain stupid.
Even after you feel no more pain, you are still healing. It takes several months internally. Take it easy, VERY easy, for a month afterward -- limited stairs, no house work, no lifting grocery bags, even if you feel fine. Because you are not.
My C-section was unplanned then turned to an emergency. I had a infection in my uterus and a kidney infection. It was absolutely terrible recovery. I couldnt use the restroom or get out of bed by myself for a month nor breastfeed. I'm healed up now 10 w pp but still have pains that are dull where I was sewed up. I think a planned C-section you have a better chance for things to go smoothly and recovery might be a little easier. Keep your head up and have DH do all the dirty work!
my recovery was not too bad. It would have been better with Narcotics If I ever have another one, I will speak up and ask for Narcotics, for at least the first 2-3 days.
It was a burning pain. yes, you have menstrual cramps just like you would if you had a vaginal birth, but the burning was the worst.
As well as sneezing and coughing for many weeks after birth!
DS born via unplanned C-section at 40w6d
The first 2-3 days in the hospital were rough - getting in and out of bed my stomach just HURT, like really bad muscle pain. I also couldn't get comfortable to sleep at night. I did get up 6 hours after my surgery and walked quite a bit, and made sure to get up every 4 hours or so and walked around, I do think this helped.
The first 3 days home were better - I could sleep fine, but I just felt pain if I stood up too long (basically stomach soreness if I had to explain it?). I took it relatively easy, but was up moving around every hour or so during the day.
A week after the surgery, I was basically pain free, and 2 weeks out now, I feel 90%. I still feel that "tugging" people describe. I do go on walks of 15-20 minutes per day, and do LIGHT housework (emptying the dishwasher, etc), but I'm trying to avoid lifting big laundry baskets or vacuuming, etc for another couple weeks.
Looking back the recovery wasn't all that bad - after a week I really did feel much much better.
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