pregnant again!!! trying to be excited

babyforbritty

Hello ladies  I am in my 5th week now.  I miscarried before somewhere between 9 and 11 weeks.  I am trying my hardest to stay calm and to enjoy every day without worrying but its so difficult.  Today I am less bloated and I cant help but think something might be wrong  What do you do to keep your mind off things?  Every little cramp or feeling scares me and I cant even pee without being scared to wipe and see blood.  Whats wrong with me  I have a perfect little blessing growing inside me and I cant stop thinking the worst.  OH! and my OB won't see me unless im bleeding until I am 8-10 weeks.  

carynmp

There is nothing wrong with you.  Welcome to world of PGAL.  We all have the same feelings that you have.  I am 16 weeks now (I feel like I have been pregnant for 1 year and 1/2) and I still get nervous.  GL with everything and try and stay upbeat and confident.  That helped me a lot with this pregnancy.

Mom2anAngel2

Congrats!  The life of being PgAL is so difficult and you are not alone in your fears and worries.  We are all in the same boat.  Wishing you a H&H 9 months.

jelero

I think that we all have those same concerns and fears.  It's just hard to enjoy a pregnancy after you've been through a loss. Just try to take it one day at a time, enjoy each little milestone that you pass (good betas, getting to the next week, a good u/s, etc.) and remember "Today I am pregnant and I love my baby."  I hope things get easier for you as time passes.

BritsyB8

Congratulations!! We are all in the same boat. I hate that we all have to deal with this fear and uncertainty. Thankfully, we have each other....Welcome to the board!

luvmyducks

Congrats and welcome!

mrsupgrade

Hello. Congratulations on your pregnancy. My emotions and feelings change often. I'm not even 4 weeks and I'm having cramping today and I'm trying to remind myself that it is "normal" There's nothing wrong with you, it's what happens when a mommy's heart gets broken [big hugs]

Andreabks

jelero:

I think that we all have those same concerns and fears.  It's just hard to enjoy a pregnancy after you've been through a loss. Just try to take it one day at a time, enjoy each little milestone that you pass (good betas, getting to the next week, a good u/s, etc.) and remember "Today I am pregnant and I love my baby."  I hope things get easier for you as time passes.

From a former Pgal, i'll just its completly normal to feel this way.  i lost 2 before my last pregnancy and the first 20 weeks were just nerve wracking.  Just know the ladies here know what you're going through and are all super supportive!  Just remember the ablove quote.  it got me though my pregnancy, especially the last few weeks.  big hugs!!!

lolalove69

Hi there omg i am the same as you!! I had a miscarriage at 7weeks in april so naturally i am also very nervous, i have some symptoms like tender breasts, constantly peeing, and i am so hungry!! Like you said i also can't help the feeling something is wrong if my breasts are not as tender as the day before or little crampy feelings in my abdomen but from what i hear its all very normal, and every time i go to the bathroom my heart skips a beat incase i see a little blood, i try to relax and stay positive as its the only thing we can do, please feel free to message me anytime as i would love to hear how you are doing

HoolahZinger

Congratulations! Your BFP is something to celebrate!! I know it's hard not to worry but try to remember that this pregnancy is not your last pregnancy. Cherish these exciting moments (and come to PgAL for free entertainment and distraction from the worry). Pull up a sticky seat!! 

jbg23

Congratulations!!