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call from social worker

cogbotcogbot member
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I had a message from our social worker to call her.  I was SO excited, and believed maybe it was THE call.  Nope,  she just needed to set up a day to come over so we could begin the process of updating our homestudy.  I'm so frustrated.  I really believed that we would get matched in the first year.  I was/am so naive.
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  • Allie-JoAllie-Jo member
    I'm so sorry!  I know that had to be heartbreaking.  (((HUGS))) to you, I hope you are matched soon!
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    6 medicated cycles, 2 pregnancies, 1 ectopic April 2011, Early Miscarriage August 2011
    7 more cycles, 1 IUI, No success after last pregnancy
    7/1/2012 No more fertility coverage
    8/17/2012 started pursuing domestic infant adoption!
    11/26/2012 HOME STUDY APPROVED!!!
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  • CaptainSeriousCaptainSerious member

    I'm sorry, cogbot.  I know how that feels, and it sucks.

    We're here if you want to talk.

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  • orange1414orange1414 member
    ((hugs)) I just about jump out of my skin every time I get a call or email from our social worker, so I understand. 
    Trying to grow our family with both fertility treatments and adoption since March 2009 
    IUIs#1-4 = BFN, IVF#1 = c/p, IVF#2 = OHSS, FET#1=BFP
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  • DaisyZHDaisyZH member
    Ugh, I'm sorry that is really dissapointing.  (( Hugs )) I hope you get matched very soon.


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  • MayDayGirlMayDayGirl member
    We had the exact same thing happen : hugs. It hurts
    Married on 3.20.2004. It took 30 month, 2 failed adoptions and IVF for our first miracle. We have had 9 foster kids since he was born and started the domestic adoption process when he was 10 month old, we had 4 failed matches in that time. After our daughter was born we brought her home and spent 2 weeks fearing we might lose her because of complications that came up. But Praise God all went through and she is ours forever! Expecting again after IVF Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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