DD has curly hair, not out of control tight ringlet curls, but soft flowing loose type curls - so too much conditioner isn't good on her hair. I'm on the hunt for a new shampoo for her. I found one in her closet that must have been a shower present but it's for straight hair, so that won't work.
I usually do Aveeno or something similar, but I need to change it up a bit, I get tired of the same scent after a while.
Re: Rec your kids shampoo
We use the Suave for Kids All Natural shampoo/conditioner in one. It's great for DD's hair because it's just enough conditioner to help with tangles. DD's hair is straight, but it's also long and fine, so we have to find a good balance.
This one is my favorite scent:
https://www.suave.com/products/Kids/default.aspx#/products/Kids/2-In-1/Purely-Awesome-Mango-2-in-1-Shampoo.aspx
We use this too and really like it. We have the Coconut scent.
This. DD1 has awesome curls and this stuff really helps keep the tangles away and the curls soft. And it's not too expensive!