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So frustrated I want to cry...

So all day yesterday I was having some pretty intense contractions. By about 10ish I think they were getting to be stop me in my tracks painful. By midnight they were 4.5 minutes apart. I called the MW around 2 and she said it sounded like I was ready to go to the hospital. Called mom to come sit with the kids and off we went. I got there around 3. They wheeled me right up to an LDR room without even stopping at triage. The midwife came in and checked me. I was still only 1cm and 50% effaced. That's right. After a week of only getting a couple hours of sleep each night for the last week due to contractions and having painful contractions that were even into my back yesterday I still have made absolutely no progress. Obviously they sent me home. I broke down in tears at the hospital. I'm just so frustrated with my body right now. Every time I think about it I want to cry again.
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Re: So frustrated I want to cry...

  • I am so sorry. I hope that Charlie decides to come soon and you and your body can get a break. Sending lots of Labor Dust your way

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  • I'm sorry hun. Sending you big hugs and positive thoughts.

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  • So sorry this process is so slow going and frustrating... FX that Charlie decides to make her big entrance to this world SOON! (((HUGS)))
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  • I'm so sorry!  Labor will happen - your body is on it's own clock.  Maybe have some ice cream, it always makes me feel better.  Or spicy food to induce labor?  
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  • Aw, I'm so sorry. That has to be so hard. I hope that things get going so that your LO can make her appearance soon!
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  • I've been getting frustrated too. Yesterday I was having regular, painful contractions then they just stopped. I haven't made any trips to L&D since my doctor told me to follow the 5-1-1 rule, but I have an appointment Monday, and I am hoping to schedule an induction for middle of next week. It has been one false alarm after another for the past 2 weeks. Sending labor and progress dust your way, and (((HUGS))) since I can understand the frustration.

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  • I'm so sorry your labor is so frustrating.  I hope Charlie picks up the momentum any minute now.  Hang in there!
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  • Thank you ladies! Sorry I was being such a whiny baby earlier. I was tired and frustrated and just needed to get it out. I feel much better now after squeezing in a nap. I know that I need to just relax and let Charlie do her thing. She'll be here when she's ready and I need to just be patient. As much as it feels like I will be, I can't possibly stay pregnant forever. Thank you for your support as always!
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  • :-( How frustrating!!

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