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pixiem38pixiem38 member
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I am full of complaints lately....too much time on.my hands maybe.,.............????????? Last night mil called to ask about how my u/s went on Monday and so i told her and tried.to.explain what ttts is and why i am freaking out/trying to bedrest. Instead of whatever a normal reaction would.be, she said, "well, is there something the doctors.can do that will.kill one of the babies and allow.another one to.live safely?" Really???! Really!??
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  • KayJayDeeKayJayDee
    I'm speechless. I can't believe she would say that to you. 
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  • LuvWIfootballLuvWIfootball member

    Wow Indifferent  How does one's mind go directly to getting rid of one to save another, rather than how do we save both?  I'm thinking about what I would have done in your shoes and I'm completely speechless. 

    I'm so sorry you even had to hear something like that. 

                          

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  • elizabeth0705elizabeth0705 member
    Wow!!! I think I would have hung up the phone right then and there. What did your DH say?
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  • raraavis28raraavis28 member
    Wow. Ditto these ladies....that is just unbelievable. I'm so sorry!
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  • ytterpytterp member

    No. Way.

     I cannot believe she said that to you. I love my mother in law, but I would have hung up. Amazing.  

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  • AmyJoy728AmyJoy728 member
    That's one approach...
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  • CourtneySueCourtneySue member

    !????!!! For real??

     Mine had late TTTS so I dont know what you are going through now but wish you all the best & dont receive any more crazy comments.

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  • Ccjones85Ccjones85 member
    Wow, that is unbelievable and sad that she would think that would be a good option. Hope your babies are doing good!
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  • pixiem38pixiem38 member
    I was speechless, but recovered and said something about how any doctor who thought that would be a good idea would no longer be my doctor. She gets minimal info.from here on out. I am generally aloof with his family (for.good reason) but i have been making an.effort to be nicer and keep.them informed. They are hard to.explain, i don't think she had any clue about how horrible that comment was. Dh just kind.of rolled his eyes. .
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