Judgement day

pennysuedog

Come on it's Thursday! 

pennysuedog

I judge people who give out Tootsie Rolls for Halloween.  I don't appreciate digging through all the nasty tootsie rolls to find the good stuff in my kids' Halloween bags.

Yes, mine is stupid.  I need to find more things to pass judgement on.

amyc216

pennysuedog:

I judge people who give out Tootsie Rolls for Halloween.  I don't appreciate digging through all the nasty tootsie rolls to find the good stuff in my kids' Halloween bags.

Yes, mine is stupid.  I need to find more things to pass judgement on.

This made me laugh!  The worst was those people that gave out that no-name brown taffy-like candy in black and orange wrappers.

Fianschneid

I just the parents who don't make an effort to get to know the other parents at daycare. I know we're all busy and trying to get to work, home, etc. but these people's kids spend all day with your kids. Just say hello.

DD was at daycare for over a month before any of the other moms would talk to me. It's an uncomfortable enough time, we should be teammates. When a new baby joins the room, I always do my best to introduce myself and DD. I think I would have felt better with the transition if people were friendlier.

michpedelle85

I judge parents who are all bundled up in the fall and winter... hat, coat, gloves everything... but the baby has no hat no gloves no shoes and a light jacket. Not acceptable. if you're cold, your baby probably is too!

mamaZbo

I judge all the women who think they need to wear their heels while commuting. Seriously, put on a pair of shoes/flip flops/anything other than your stilettos to walk down the brick sidewalks, ride the bus and get on the subway. No one will fault you for wearing practical footwear and carrying your heels in your bag. You take twice as long to get where you are going and look like an idiot doing your bird walk trying to avoid all the cracks and bumps. I hate getting stuck behind you on the sidewalk, and I silently wish for your heel to get caught in between a brick.

diego299

I feel like we are on a judmental weather kick and I am on board! I judge texas weather! Born and raised here, Lone star proud but I'm sick of this heat! Last wknd the high for both days was 53 and it was fantastic! Today it's suppose to be 90! I want to wear my cute sweaters and boots. Not to mention LO is outgrowing his summer clothes and I don't want to have to buy more summer stuff in Oct. It's not fair!

anasazi17

amyc216:

pennysuedog:

I judge people who give out Tootsie Rolls for Halloween.  I don't appreciate digging through all the nasty tootsie rolls to find the good stuff in my kids' Halloween bags.

Yes, mine is stupid.  I need to find more things to pass judgement on.

This made me laugh!  The worst was those people that gave out that no-name brown taffy-like candy in black and orange wrappers.

Both of these are my absolute favorites!!! I'm so lame!! Don't judge me dammit, lol.

 

I Judge people in the grocery store every. single. time. for what is in their carts.  I get so pissed off when they are completely filled with junk.  No one family needs 2 boxes of donuts, 3 Tony's pizzas and not a fresh veggie in sight.  And you wonder why there is a health issue in this country.  Secondarily, I judge (read: harshly) those who blame the cost of food for their choices.  Yes, it is a bit more time consuming & challenging to make a dollar stretch, but it is possible to do so and eat healthy.  People need to teach their children about making healthy choices.  

Side note:  I do realize there are areas in this country where it is extremely difficult to get to a store that sells fresh options...this judge is not for those situations. For that I judge our leaders, the advertising community and any other asshat that is responsible.  

pennysuedog

lisajay09:

amyc216:

pennysuedog:

I judge people who give out Tootsie Rolls for Halloween.  I don't appreciate digging through all the nasty tootsie rolls to find the good stuff in my kids' Halloween bags.

Yes, mine is stupid.  I need to find more things to pass judgement on.

This made me laugh!  The worst was those people that gave out that no-name brown taffy-like candy in black and orange wrappers.

I judge myself for loving both of those things!

send me your address and I 'll have a nice package sent to your house November 1st!

barefootandboots

mamaZbo:

I judge all the women who think they need to wear their heels while commuting. Seriously, put on a pair of shoes/flip flops/anything other than your stilettos to walk down the brick sidewalks, ride the bus and get on the subway. No one will fault you for wearing practical footwear and carrying your heels in your bag. You take twice as long to get where you are going and look like an idiot doing your bird walk trying to avoid all the cracks and bumps. I hate getting stuck behind you on the sidewalk, and I silently wish for your heel to get caught in between a brick.

I understand the practicality of wearing regular shoes in these cases, but I honestly judge women I see wearing sneakers or flip flops with their work clothes. If they are a nice pair of flats, i don't judge as much but if you're wearing a pencil skirt and sneakers or flip flops, I'm judging you hardcore. And with work trousers, sometimes flat shoes arent even an option because then your pants drag on the ground. I take fashion over practicality.  

I judge my cousin who is having a wedding in Thailand, asking his guests to spend close to $3k per person to come, and they didn't even send paper invites. I got an email. A freaking EMAIL. We weren't going to go anyways because we can't spend that kind of money, but now I kind of want to send you an email saying, "I'm forgoing wedding tradition and sending an email instead of a gift to congratulate you!"

cantalopes24

michpedelle85:

I judge parents who are all bundled up in the fall and winter... hat, coat, gloves everything... but the baby has no hat no gloves no shoes and a light jacket. Not acceptable. if you're cold, your baby probably is too!

I also judge the opposite. If it's 90 out and your baby is in a carrier pressed up against you they don't need fleece pajamas a hat and a blanket draped over them.

mamaZbo

Please send that email!

I guess fashion is not on the top of my list, especially since most days I never change out of my commuting shoes . I do have a drawer of heels at my desk and I will put them on for a meeting, but my feet like to be comfortable.

missyishere

anasazi17:

amyc216:

pennysuedog:

I judge people who give out Tootsie Rolls for Halloween.  I don't appreciate digging through all the nasty tootsie rolls to find the good stuff in my kids' Halloween bags.

Yes, mine is stupid.  I need to find more things to pass judgement on.

This made me laugh!  The worst was those people that gave out that no-name brown taffy-like candy in black and orange wrappers.

Both of these are my absolute favorites!!! I'm so lame!! Don't judge me dammit, lol.

 

I Judge people in the grocery store every. single. time. for what is in their carts.  I get so pissed off when they are completely filled with junk.  No one family needs 2 boxes of donuts, 3 Tony's pizzas and not a fresh veggie in sight.  And you wonder why there is a health issue in this country.  Secondarily, I judge (read: harshly) those who blame the cost of food for their choices.  Yes, it is a bit more time consuming & challenging to make a dollar stretch, but it is possible to do so and eat healthy.  People need to teach their children about making healthy choices.  

Side note:  I do realize there are areas in this country where it is extremely difficult to get to a store that sells fresh options...this judge is not for those situations. For that I judge our leaders, the advertising community and any other asshat that is responsible.  

I totally agree, and I am in such an area where there isn't an abundance of healthy items.  That being said, we do have a farmer's market, and there are health conscience foods - it's just harder to find them. 

I feel like there is clothing to suit everybody type at every price point, so I don't understand why folks intentionally purchase and wear clothes 2 sizes too small.  I judge those people who decide while getting dress, "well, it zips, so it must fit."  No, no it doesn't.

colliebabe

I judge people who are unnecessarily rude to waiters/servers when it is clearly not that server's fault.  I went to dinner with some work people recently and one of them was so rude to the waiter when it was clearly the bar's fault, not the server himself. It was embarrassing. I was being overly nice to the guy to try to make up for her rudeness!

I also judge those who don't realize that opening up and reading a book while someone is talking to them is just as rude as texting on a phone.

 

punkin05

michpedelle85:

I judge parents who are all bundled up in the fall and winter... hat, coat, gloves everything... but the baby has no hat no gloves no shoes and a light jacket. Not acceptable. if you're cold, your baby probably is too!

Bump Burp

punkin05

michpedelle85:

I judge parents who are all bundled up in the fall and winter... hat, coat, gloves everything... but the baby has no hat no gloves no shoes and a light jacket. Not acceptable. if you're cold, your baby probably is too!

My judgement piggy backs off this one. I judge the mom in the home improvement store last week who was bundled up in her winter coat and mittens, yet her child (maybe 5 years old) was running around behind her in his winter boots with shorts and a t-shirt on. He also had the nastiest sounding barking cough and runny nose. Your child has a cold and sounds miserable and he's running around in summer clothes! It's October in Alberta. We've had snow already this year. Make sure your children are properly dressed for the weather people!

Sammy-Mae

amyc216:

pennysuedog:

I judge people who give out Tootsie Rolls for Halloween.  I don't appreciate digging through all the nasty tootsie rolls to find the good stuff in my kids' Halloween bags.

Yes, mine is stupid.  I need to find more things to pass judgement on.

This made me laugh!  The worst was those people that gave out that no-name brown taffy-like candy in black and orange wrappers.

I guess I need to judge myself because I love both of those candies.  Like Love them... 

Stewartandmaura

mamaZbo:

Please send that email!

I guess fashion is not on the top of my list, especially since most days I never change out of my commuting shoes . I do have a drawer of heels at my desk and I will put them on for a meeting, but my feet like to be comfortable.

I am a comfort over fashion person any day. If I can do comfort & fashion, that is the ultimate goal. 

As gross as it is, and I guess this is a confession, when I worked, as soon as I was at my desk, the shoes came off. I would go barefoot everywhere if possible.  Except not in public restrooms...that shizz is nasty.

 

ETA:  I judge the women, you know who you are, who go into the handicap stall in the restroom to take care of business.  I think they do it because it's harder to see their feet under the door so no one will no who's stinking the place up, but seriously, leave the stall open for those who need the extra space, like people with wheelchairs or moms with strollers.

joolz17

barefootandboots:

I judge my cousin who is having a wedding in Thailand, asking his guests to spend close to $3k per person to come, and they didn't even send paper invites. I got an email. A freaking EMAIL. We weren't going to go anyways because we can't spend that kind of money, but now I kind of want to send you an email saying, "I'm forgoing wedding tradition and sending an email instead of a gift to congratulate you!"

Ok, that is so rude. I know I'm a stickler about etiquette, but you must send actual wedding invitations.

chulita425

I judge the girls here on base who go online to the fb yardsale pages and ask for ANYONE to watch their kids. How can you leave you child with anyone?! It blows my mind!! DS has only been watched by my mom and MIL and it hasn't been too many times.

chulita425

pennysuedog:

I judge people who give out Tootsie Rolls for Halloween.  I don't appreciate digging through all the nasty tootsie rolls to find the good stuff in my kids' Halloween bags.

Yes, mine is stupid.  I need to find more things to pass judgement on.

Totally love the Tootsie Rolls :] only the brown ones though haha. 

Elsa1984

I judge my former coworker. She probably weighs close to 300 pounds. Her 11 year old son has got to be close to 200. Her premature son is now 2, and went from being super tiny to being in the 100th percentile for weight. She would feed him candy for breakfast to get him to eat and fatten him up. She is a coupon freak and although getting free food is awesome, it's never healthy free food. One time she brought home TEN cartons of ice cream and 25 liters of soda. She told everyone she is proud of her fatty son for eating enough Lunchables to get points for a Nerf gun and said "see, determination and hard work paid off for him. So proud of my son!" I can only imagine how much of that rubbery meat and cheese he had to eat to get a 20 dollar Nerf gun. Everything she has coupons for is highly processed, full of fat, carbs and sodium. He was getting picked on in school for his weight so she is homeschooling, but he quickly does his work then sits all day eating and playing video games. He doesn't do any physical activity to counteract that crud he eats. I feel bad for him because he isn't the one that buys the food. But I totally judge her and her husband. When she posts about her buy five, get ten free fudgesicles.....her free extra butter microwave popcorn she scored.....twenty boxes of Oreos....or twelve boxes of pop tops she says will last them two weeks.....I always want to say something about the fact that the food she gets are nasty and full of crap, but I stay quiet. They all know they are fat and have health problems....those ten gallons of ice cream they polished off in a month is a big sign.

Chunstad

mamaZbo:

I judge all the women who think they need to wear their heels while commuting. Seriously, put on a pair of shoes/flip flops/anything other than your stilettos to walk down the brick sidewalks, ride the bus and get on the subway. No one will fault you for wearing practical footwear and carrying your heels in your bag. You take twice as long to get where you are going and look like an idiot doing your bird walk trying to avoid all the cracks and bumps. I hate getting stuck behind you on the sidewalk, and I silently wish for your heel to get caught in between a brick.

You are in the D.C. area, right?  When we went on vaca there 6 years ago, I remember seeing these women dressed totally up, heels and suits, looking beautiful!  I felt so dowdy compaired to them, but I couldn't see how they did the whole heel thing and then walk all over town.  They must have some huge ass bunions!

Scramblersmom

Packerfan79:

I judge myself for not having a better celebrity sex dream than I did last night.  Rick Schroeder made an appearance.  F-ing Rick Schroeder.  Come on.

 ETA pick and the fact that I am not attracted to dirty blondes and blonde men in general.

 

 

I wanted a sex dream about (Boris Kodjoe):

 

It could have been worse...you could have dreamed about someone like Justin Beiber!  

missyishere

I am going to do another judge for two reasons: I'm cooling down after my run while Nora sleeps, and I don't feel there have been enough judgments today.  We're getting soft around here...

I judge my girlfriend for resulting to extremes all of the time.  I encourage her to come work out with me, and we even did WW together.  I do all of this, because she keeps saying that she's going to get liposuction and a tuck if she doesn't lose the weight she wants fast enough, and I want my friend to be healthy.  I understand the desire to lose weight and how frustrating it can be, but there is no quick fix.  I judge her, because we're young enough to lose it healthy.  I judge her, because she will continue her bad eating habits even after surgery.  I judge her, because she will put on another mortgage on her home rather than take an hour or less out of her day to get a good workout. 

 

ETA:  I realize it is difficult for a mommy to find time to work out, especially if you work and have multiple children.  Actually, I don't know how some of you do it.  My point was there is no quick fix.  We are both SAHMs, and we are allowed more time for working out. 

Scramblersmom

I am judging my friend with the out of control kid yet again. She is moving with her DS for a job and all she can do is whine and get teary eyed about how rough it will be on her DS (who is only 3). Her Mom is coming for 6 months to stay with her DS because she doesn't think he can handle being in daycare full-time. She already takes 1/2 a day vacation every day because she can not drop off her son and go.Her husband never had problems dropping off DS...only she sees it as a problem. She caves into his fits so she stays half the day at his daycare instead of going to work. She is also leaving behind her DH when she moves and is only planning on seeing him twice a month at most. Their marriage has been in trouble for the last 2.5 years mostly because she has replaced the husband with her kid (which she admits to). I don't wish her any ill will but I am expecting her DH to have someone on the side within a matter of weeks after she leaves. Some days I just want to slap some sense into her. She is a really nice person, and I really like her as my friend (can't stand her kid though), but she is rapidly approaching a cliff and she just keeps walking towards it

Ms.Jade

anasazi17:

amyc216:

pennysuedog:

I judge people who give out Tootsie Rolls for Halloween.  I don't appreciate digging through all the nasty tootsie rolls to find the good stuff in my kids' Halloween bags.

Yes, mine is stupid.  I need to find more things to pass judgement on.

This made me laugh!  The worst was those people that gave out that no-name brown taffy-like candy in black and orange wrappers.

Both of these are my absolute favorites!!! I'm so lame!! Don't judge me dammit, lol.

 

I Judge people in the grocery store every. single. time. for what is in their carts.  I get so pissed off when they are completely filled with junk.  No one family needs 2 boxes of donuts, 3 Tony's pizzas and not a fresh veggie in sight.  And you wonder why there is a health issue in this country.  Secondarily, I judge (read: harshly) those who blame the cost of food for their choices.  Yes, it is a bit more time consuming & challenging to make a dollar stretch, but it is possible to do so and eat healthy.  People need to teach their children about making healthy choices.  

Side note:  I do realize there are areas in this country where it is extremely difficult to get to a store that sells fresh options...this judge is not for those situations. For that I judge our leaders, the advertising community and any other asshat that is responsible.  

I have to give a presentation about the food desert issue in Los Angeles (so many people live no where near a grocery store or anything other than a liquor store or fast food in our city) and I love your post. I am so going to quote your last sentence and see my CEO's reaction. It's much easier than doing my work tonight and figuring out the nuances of the issue. Esp since I have a headache. Time for wine!

stardust317

I judge the mom at daycare who climbed in the backseat of a car with her baby. Someone else was driving. Mom did not put baby in the carseat and they left. :