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Help? Who is the father?

kilynnsmommykilynnsmommy
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I had sex with a man who was not my bf sept 13th 2011. The next week and so on I had sex with my bf now. I got pregnant. The doc said the ultrasound said I was 6 weeks pregnant. That would make my bf the baby's father but this baby looks like the other guy. I had a period and negative pregnancy tests after I slept with the other guy but I just cant shake this feeling she is his. Advice? Spare my feelings please be blunt I dont care
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Re: Help? Who is the father?

  • thepretzelchickthepretzelchick member
    Call Maury Povich.
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  • kpearse99kpearse99 member

    Oye! 

    I'd say that because you got your period after you had sex with the first guy that it is likely your DD isn't his.  Maybe because you are feeling guilty about the whole situation you are causing your mind to believe that she looks like him and not like your BF?

    The only way to truly know is to get a genetic testing done....

    When was your last period before you got pregnant?  It is most likely you ovulated 2 weeks after the first day of your period and that you got pregnant in that time frame

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  • singingirl96singingirl96 member
    get a paternity test.  that's the only way you'll know for sure.
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  • JulesDianeJulesDiane member

    "Under ideal circumstances, if healthy sperm get beyond the cervix into the uterus and up to the fallopian tubes, they can live as long as 5-7 days after ejaculation. On average, though, sperm live about 3-4 days once they?ve made it all the way to the fallopian tubes, where fertilization takes place."

     

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  • missnickssmissnickss member
    Try the at home dna test?

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  • Nikko BlueNikko Blue member

    imagethepretzelchick:
    Call Maury Povich.

    This... https://www.mauryshow.com/contact_us.php

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  • aylafsu88aylafsu88 member
    Well, if the baby looks like the other guy then it must be his! No need to spend money on a paternity test!
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  • mben1119mben1119 member
    Get a paternity test.
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  • MyBeanieBabyMyBeanieBaby member

    Me personally can never figure out who my newborns look like. Me or OH IDK.. lol. 

    So you could easily be tricking your mind into thinking the baby looks like the other guys.

     

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  • leannsiipleleannsiiple member
    imageNikko Blue:

    imagethepretzelchick:
    Call Maury Povich.

    This... https://www.mauryshow.com/contact_us.php

     

    ^this. and let us know when your episode is on. lol

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  • NerdyMama2NerdyMama2 member
    A paternity test would be helpful.
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  • downwardsunshinedownwardsunshine member
    imageMrsMuq:

    Either you're a candidate for MTV's "16 and Pregnant" or too dumb to know how birth control works.

    Based on your last post: https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/67538216.aspx questioning whether you could be pregnant after having sex 2w postpartum, I'm going to go with the latter.

     

    Dang, why is there no like button?!?! 

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  • JAL102129JAL102129 member
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    imagesingingirl96:
    get a paternity test.  that's the only way you'll know for sure.

    This. We can't tell you who the father is. A paternity test will settle everything and put your mind at ease (hopefully). 

     

    Yup, all of this.

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  • KarmBKarmB member
    If you eat a spoonful of maple syrup and then take a ride on a moose, you will vomit the name of the father.

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  • JAL102129JAL102129 member

    imageKarmB:
    If you eat a spoonful of maple syrup and then take a ride on a moose, you will vomit the name of the father.

     

    LOL

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  • kilynnsmommykilynnsmommy
    Nobody wants your sarcasm. This board is to get help not be dissed. so ***k off
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  • PachitaPachita member
     I thought this was MUD...

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  • KarmBKarmB member
    I quote "Be blunt i dont care:. Sorry you are offended by maple syrup.

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  • jacobsonjacobson member

    New on this board and OMG, I'm coming on more often!! This is hilarious and you really cracked me up! Thanks for the laugh.

     

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  • reinedecajunreinedecajun member

    imagethepretzelchick:
    Call Maury Povich.

    Yes 

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    Hehehehehe. 
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  • cwm11985cwm11985 member

    imageJessie11LU:
    imageKarmB:
    If you eat a spoonful of maple syrup and then take a ride on a moose, you will vomit the name of the father.
    I agree with this. Last time I questioned who the father of my baby was, I took a moose ride and BAM! I knew who it was. It turned out the moose was the father.... oh, that sounds just as stupid as the OP.

     

    ahhahhahahaha 

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