TMI / testes Tuesday???

bigbear

Anybody??

Ok here I go: tmi: AF ended Sunday, then yesterday HUGE clump with some pain, then nothing again. Not sure what the heck that was but I'm just not going to worry about it for now....

testes: DH is sick... again.... or still.... I don't know anymore. And all the doc ever has to say is, "rest as much as you can". Know what that means? NO sleep for me ever! No, option for me to be sick or have any relief, ever. UGH

 

aboynamedbarry

TMI: my left nipple somehow got extremely dried out and started bleeding while i was pumping the other day. (it's better now btw)

 Testes: DH watched DD all day saturday while i was at work. He took her to a birthday party and was planning to bring her home after bedtime... therefore the plan was to have her in jammies and nighttime diaper and fed before even leaving. she falls asleep in the car and transfers to bed for the night. Weeeeeellllllllll, he forgot the bottle, he forgot to put the onesie under her jammies (which meant she would be too cold) ANNNNNNDDDDDD he forgot the nighttime diaper!!! So he pretty much forgot everything. Guess who woke up soaked the next morning? btw we turned the heat up quite a bit to accomodate her inadequate clothing situation.

bigbear

aboynamedbarry:

TMI: my left nipple somehow got extremely dried out and started bleeding while i was pumping the other day. (it's better now btw)

 Testes: DH watched DD all day saturday while i was at work. He took her to a birthday party and was planning to bring her home after bedtime... therefore the plan was to have her in jammies and nighttime diaper and fed before even leaving. she falls asleep in the car and transfers to bed for the night. Weeeeeellllllllll, he forgot the bottle, he forgot to put the onesie under her jammies (which meant she would be too cold) ANNNNNNDDDDDD he forgot the nighttime diaper!!! So he pretty much forgot everything. Guess who woke up soaked the next morning? btw we turned the heat up quite a bit to accomodate her inadequate clothing situation.

I feel your pain! Since having and BFing DD I now have one dark and one light nipple LMAO

Also, my lovely DH was so annoyed that it was "his turn" to tend to DD over night (this was a few days ago) that he didn't check her diaper at 3am and she was going to sleep but then would not get comfy and just CRY.

I walk in and her onesie is completely WET that's how much she had peed. If he hd taken 2 minutes to check and change her diaper we all might have gotten some sleep that night. And he hasn't been really tending to her hardly at all the past 3 weeks. I made him get up that ONE time. He is so on my $hit list right now

mrs.larry

TMI - I think my cycles are starting back up again (or soon). discharge changes, strange cramps, bad skin, low milk supply... but hey at least I'll be wanting sex more, right?

Testes - I can't watch DH do the dishes. He puts soap on each dish separately and washes each one individually without the plug in the sink or anything. (My method is making a sink of soapy water, starting with bottles and anything the kids use that needs handwashing (while the water is still clean) and moving on to pots and pans and dirty things last.) His way is a waste of water and soap and it is impossible for me to be in the same room with him without word vomiting snarky comments. However, I want him to continue actually washing dishes so I just leave the room and try not to imagine what's going on in there. Yes, I realize this is borderline ocd but it seriously makes me squirm.

bigbear

mrs.larry:

TMI - I think my cycles are starting back up again (or soon). discharge changes, strange cramps, bad skin, low milk supply... but hey at least I'll be wanting sex more, right?

Testes - I can't watch DH do the dishes. He puts soap on each dish separately and washes each one individually without the plug in the sink or anything. (My method is making a sink of soapy water, starting with bottles and anything the kids use that needs handwashing (while the water is still clean) and moving on to pots and pans and dirty things last.) His way is a waste of water and soap and it is impossible for me to be in the same room with him without word vomiting snarky comments. However, I want him to continue actually washing dishes so I just leave the room and try not to imagine what's going on in there. Yes, I realize this is borderline ocd but it seriously makes me squirm.

Nope

mrs.larry

 

bigbear:

mrs.larry:

TMI - I think my cycles are starting back up again (or soon). discharge changes, strange cramps, bad skin, low milk supply... but hey at least I'll be wanting sex more, right?

Testes - I can't watch DH do the dishes. He puts soap on each dish separately and washes each one individually without the plug in the sink or anything. (My method is making a sink of soapy water, starting with bottles and anything the kids use that needs handwashing (while the water is still clean) and moving on to pots and pans and dirty things last.) His way is a waste of water and soap and it is impossible for me to be in the same room with him without word vomiting snarky comments. However, I want him to continue actually washing dishes so I just leave the room and try not to imagine what's going on in there. Yes, I realize this is borderline ocd but it seriously makes me squirm.

Nope

damn.

aboynamedbarry

mrs.larry:

TMI - I think my cycles are starting back up again (or soon). discharge changes, strange cramps, bad skin, low milk supply... but hey at least I'll be wanting sex more, right?

Testes - I can't watch DH do the dishes. He puts soap on each dish separately and washes each one individually without the plug in the sink or anything. (My method is making a sink of soapy water, starting with bottles and anything the kids use that needs handwashing (while the water is still clean) and moving on to pots and pans and dirty things last.) His way is a waste of water and soap and it is impossible for me to be in the same room with him without word vomiting snarky comments. However, I want him to continue actually washing dishes so I just leave the room and try not to imagine what's going on in there. Yes, I realize this is borderline ocd but it seriously makes me squirm.

 dude, mine does the SAME thing... i also cannot handle it. it's not OCD it's common sense!!!

namara5532

mrs.larry:

TMI - I think my cycles are starting back up again (or soon). discharge changes, strange cramps, bad skin, low milk supply... but hey at least I'll be wanting sex more, right?

Testes - I can't watch DH do the dishes. He puts soap on each dish separately and washes each one individually without the plug in the sink or anything. (My method is making a sink of soapy water, starting with bottles and anything the kids use that needs handwashing (while the water is still clean) and moving on to pots and pans and dirty things last.) His way is a waste of water and soap and it is impossible for me to be in the same room with him without word vomiting snarky comments. However, I want him to continue actually washing dishes so I just leave the room and try not to imagine what's going on in there. Yes, I realize this is borderline ocd but it seriously makes me squirm.

At least yours uses soap!  I had to nag DH for a straight year to get him to use soap when washing dishes.  He would just scrub with hot water and call it clean.  Disgusting!  Pointing out that DS can get sick helps him remember now, but I still have to glance over his shoulder to make sure that soap is in use.  More often than not, I end up doing the dishes because then I know they're actually getting clean.  I look forward to getting a dishwasher someday because that has to be more foolproof, right?

TMI: I'm on my first full period since birthing DS, and it SUCKS!  I'm grateful I went without it for so long, but I'd forgotten how b!tchy I get.  I wanted to punch some stupid people yesterday because they were delaying me getting back home to DS (and to my pain meds).

michaelaskedlauren

Testes: I had a girls night last night (yay!) so DH watched Z while I was out. Everything went as it should, Z was alseep by 830. I get home and he wakes up 30 mins later then decides he didnt want to go to sleep until 2am! I almost lost my ish. I tried the swing, sleeping on the floor in his room, nursing, NOTHING. Finally at 2am I just brought him into bed with us...to have him wake up at 630am like normal. 

I was (and still am) a cracked out zombie biitch. When I explained to DH last night's escapades. He says: "Why didnt you wake me up?" Ummm...not sure how you were able to SLEEP through our son crying constantly while I was trying to get him to sleep, but dealing with a sleep deprived DH is even worse than a baby who doesnt want to go to bed.