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2 days late and BFN

needsomemamadramaneedsomemamadrama
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Hi everyone - just wondering if any of you have experienced this and if so, how did things turn out. My period is normally anywhere from 29-33 days. Last month it was 31 days, but many times it is 33 days, so I don't really consider myself late until after 33 days, which has never happened until this month. Today is day 35 and still no period, but got a BFN yesterday. I don't feel like I have any symptoms either way. Don't have period symptoms or pregnancy symptoms......

We have been trying for 2 years. I am torturing myself. I know that I am probably not, but just wondering if anyone else has had a negative and then maybe got a positive later???

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Re: 2 days late and BFN

  • HeathernStevenHeathernSteven member
    Perhaps you ovulated later then you thought? do you temp or use opk? My guess is you just ovulated late this month,

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    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

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  • QzeesQzees
    That just happened to me with my last cycle & I ended up getting AF 2 days after I tested - it was my longest cycle since I have been charting.  I hope you have a better outcome than I did... :)
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  • needsomemamadramaneedsomemamadrama

    This is the first month I haven't charted in a while.... thanks for the input.

     

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  • robbensmrobbensm member
    I agree with PPs but remeber you're not out til AF shows Wink
    Me 39 & suspected PCOS, DH 42. Went off BCP when we got married in 11/11, seriously TTC since 3/12.  Six cycles of clomid = BFNs.  Suspected endometriosis & HSG showed both tubes blocked.  Sept 2013 IVF 5D transfer of two perfect embryos = BFN.  Started acupuncture and taking time off to drop some pounds & get healthier before FET in April 2014.
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  • robbensmrobbensm member
    I agree with PPs but remeber you're not out til AF shows Wink
    Me 39 & suspected PCOS, DH 42. Went off BCP when we got married in 11/11, seriously TTC since 3/12.  Six cycles of clomid = BFNs.  Suspected endometriosis & HSG showed both tubes blocked.  Sept 2013 IVF 5D transfer of two perfect embryos = BFN.  Started acupuncture and taking time off to drop some pounds & get healthier before FET in April 2014.
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  • MarylandWedMarylandWed member
    Good luck! I have only had that experience with medicated cycles. Otherwise, no.
    Me:39 Dx LPD, Fibroid, AMA and all that goes with that. H:37 Dx low motility and low morphology. TTC since 3/12. Clomid 8/12 and 9/12: BFN. 11/12 on a break for Myomectomy sched. 11/26. Resume TTC early 2013.
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  • ksgsmuksgsmu member
     Keep testing, but since you don't know when you ovulated it could just be that you ovulated a couple days late.  Stress, illness etc... can cause a delay.  Keep testing with FMU though!  you never know!  Good luck!
    ***siggy/ticker warning***

    Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
    Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR,  DH: normal

     IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
    - poor responder
    ***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
    IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
    FET 5/20- BFP
    1st Beta- 641
    2nd beta- 2166
    Sono- TWINS!!!!
    Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks.  Healthy and no NICU!  So blessed!



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  • happywifemomofonehappywifemomofone member
    I wish that I had a good story to tell, but I do not.  I am also late this month, by 9 days.   I have always been very regular.  BFN when I POAS.  Besides this cycle, I had a 45 day cycle in May or something.  During that cycle I went to a RE and found that I had a cyst that was causing the delay.  I'm afraid that cycles becoming irregular and unpredictable can be a sign of perimenopause.  Hoping that that is not the case for you, and that you just ovulated late.
    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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