Hi! My DS is 5 weeks old and I'm very ready to transition him to his crib in his own room. I've tried putting him down for naps in his crib but they only last about 30 mins before he wakes up screaming. I try to comfort without picking him up but nothing seems to work. I end up picking him up, he falls asleep, I put him back in his crib and the cycle repeats. He's been sleeping in the Fisher Price Rock n Play Sleeper thing. He was doing really well in it but now that seems to be falling apart too. :
Any advice?
Re: Transition to crib
We just started this with our 6 week old son this past weekend, so we are going into night 4 this evening. I think every baby is going to be different when it comes to this, so I can only go from what we are going through right now. Our son is a great sleeper, so our approach has been fairly easy.
The challenge we have had is adjusting the feeding schedule. So he gets a bottle at 7:00. After that I burp him and we do tummy time for 5-10 minutes. I then take him down to the man cave with me until @ 9:30, at which time I feed him again.
At that point, we shut the house down, my wife takes him and they rock in the glider in his room while she reads to him. Takes about 15 minutes for him to fall out at that point.
We don't swaddle him in there, but we do put him in a sleep sack. His arms are free, but his little, kicking legs remain enclosed. Now, he still is waking up for his night feedings, but he is already stating to extend his sleep more and more each night.
Again, our son is a great sleeper, so I am sure that plays a bigger role then anything we are doing. But he sure does love that sleep sack. I think the biggest thing we are doing is adjusting our routine and including him in it. My wife is also feeding him more during the day to ensure that he has enough in his belly for the nighttime as we try to extend his sleep time.
Is the crib mattress cold when you lay him down? Sometimes if you heat it up first with a heating pad set on low, it helps babies to stay in a deeper sleep (move the heating pad before you set baby down, and turn it off once the mattress is warm). Also, what has been working for me as far as naps in the crib go is the Halo sleep sacks that swaddle the arms. DD cant do the startle response that wakes her up that way. She went from sleeping 2-3 hours a night to sleeping 4-5, which is a nice improvement. When she wakes up, I change her diaper, nurse her on my side, wait a few minutes until she drifts off, and lay her back down for another couple of hours. (this is at night). I also have a twin bed in her room that I am sleeping on while she transitions. It is easier on the both of us, plus she doesnt wake my husband, so the whole family is happy.
Good luck!
I don't know if I'm trying to push him out too early or not. I'm a FTM and feel guilty about any decision!
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.