Hello
I was hoping to get some opinions on the name Camden James for a boy. I like the name Camden and DH doesn't, but said he will agree if the middle name is James. Other names we have debated are Micah and Carson.
Thoughts?? Thanks in advance. I am due in 7 weeks and trying to name this baby is driving me nuts. We are team green but we have a couple of girl names picked out.
Re: Camden?
It goes with your other children's names.
Personally I like Micah much better than Carson or Camden.
Carter was on our list but we now know 4 people who named their kids Carter in the last year so we took it off the list.
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hahaha yes, it is a pretty well known town and not for good reasons! I moved to WV and only go back to NJ when I absolutely have to!
Well, there ya go! No association for you! lol I still like Micah better.
Just FYI pretty sure Camden James is the exact name of either Jay Cutler and Kristen Cavalaris boy or Nick Lachey and Vanessa Lachey's new son (one was Camden James the other Camden Jack). I don't mind celebrity connection to names but the exact name thing is weird.
I do like Camden though. And Micah. Carson would be in 3rd for me.
EDIT: It was Camden Jack and Camden John. My bad. Ignore my comment.
If you love the name, use it! Most of the people I know don't associate the names with the towns. And when I hear the name my first thought isn't "Oh...they named him Douglas? I wonder if the town of Douglas was their favorite place to vacation?"
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Camden is somewhat nationally notorious for crime (it had the highest number of violent crimes per capita in the nation for many years around 2008). So it isn't just NJ folks who will know of Camden, it is the vast majority of east coasters and probably a lot of others.
I went to college in Philly so I am definitely aware of Camden and have the negative association. It would be like living in SoCal and naming your kid Compton.
I would avoid it. You might live in Nebraska, but your kid might want to move east. If he ends up in NYC or Philly or DC the name Camden is not classy.
ETA: I love James.
Some other names to consider that are similar(ish) - Cameron, Carson, Connor, Carter, Christian...
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Of your choices, I like Micah.
People would assume that a kid named Camden around here would be named after the baseball stadium. So I don't like it for that reason. But I also think it just sounds trendy.
I like Camden and I think it goes well with your other children's names.
I'm in Canada and have never heard of the place everyone is talking about. There are so many reasons to avoid almost every name out there. I wouldn't focus on that and, rather, choose a name you like.
I like Micah as well but I don't think it goes as well as a sibset. I'm not a fan of Carson.
I do like the PP's suggestion of Cameron instead.
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