Hell hath no fury..

exc1tedforbaby1

Like a woman scorned..

Lesson learned.. Posted a few days about about catching my SO cheating on me.. It appears that it was just a woman from his work who recently got fired with a grudge to hold against other employee.. Does this mean I'm letting my guard down 100, absolutely not. He agrees he wasn't emotionally there for me like he should have been at the end of my pregnancy and seems to sincerely want to work things out. Well see... It does seem that he 'emotionally' cheated.. telling her personal things that he really shouldn't have. Seems she was in a rough spot besides getting fired and he was just trying to be kind to her.. Thanks so much for the support and kind words ladies.

bigbootyjudi

I'm sorry, but unless there is substantial, solid, visible proof (meaning more than just his word) that the woman was just a vengeful b!tch, I wouldn't believe a word of that story.

Even if she said it didn't happen, she could just be saying it because he asked her to and if she likes/loves/cares for him, she'd do whatever he said, just to make him happy.

I'm not trying to be a Debbie Downer, but I'm not buying it. That's a pretty extreme length to go to just because she got fired and to do that to a woman with a newborn? I'm just not seeing how any woman could justify that to herself. I get that some women are just heartless, but why would she get so involved with his personal life to get her revenge? She could've said something about his work ethic or something else work related to get him in trouble.

Hopefully I'm wrong and it all works out.

Jnmac83

anbeck4:

I'm sorry, but unless there is substantial, solid, visible proof meaning more than just his word that the woman was just a vengeful b!tch, I wouldn't believe a word of that story. Even if she said it didn't happen, she could just be saying it because he asked her to and if she likes/loves/cares for him, she'd do whatever he said, just to make him happy. I'm not trying to be a Debbie Downer, but I'm not buying it. That's a pretty extreme length to go to just because she got fired and to do that to a woman with a newborn? I'm just not seeing how any woman could justify that to herself. I get that some women are just heartless, but why would she get so involved with his personal life to get her revenge? She could've said something about his work ethic or something else work related to get him in trouble.Hopefully I'm wrong and it all works out.

My first instinct was the same! I would be careful. I hope for the best for your sake and the baby's sake. I just wouldn't so easily trust him if it were me.

rp-chicago-mom

Jnmac83:

anbeck4:

I'm sorry, but unless there is substantial, solid, visible proof meaning more than just his word that the woman was just a vengeful b!tch, I wouldn't believe a word of that story. Even if she said it didn't happen, she could just be saying it because he asked her to and if she likes/loves/cares for him, she'd do whatever he said, just to make him happy. I'm not trying to be a Debbie Downer, but I'm not buying it. That's a pretty extreme length to go to just because she got fired and to do that to a woman with a newborn? I'm just not seeing how any woman could justify that to herself. I get that some women are just heartless, but why would she get so involved with his personal life to get her revenge? She could've said something about his work ethic or something else work related to get him in trouble.Hopefully I'm wrong and it all works out.

My first instinct was the same! I would be careful. I hope for the best for your sake and the baby's sake. I just wouldn't so easily trust him if it were me.

Especially with his phone and car at stake.

rp-chicago-mom

Burp!

Tula214

anbeck4:

I'm sorry, but unless there is substantial, solid, visible proof meaning more than just his word that the woman was just a vengeful b!tch, I wouldn't believe a word of that story. Even if she said it didn't happen, she could just be saying it because he asked her to and if she likes/loves/cares for him, she'd do whatever he said, just to make him happy. I'm not trying to be a Debbie Downer, but I'm not buying it. That's a pretty extreme length to go to just because she got fired and to do that to a woman with a newborn? I'm just not seeing how any woman could justify that to herself. I get that some women are just heartless, but why would she get so involved with his personal life to get her revenge? She could've said something about his work ethic or something else work related to get him in trouble.Hopefully I'm wrong and it all works out.

My thoughts, too. Though I have underestimated people before.

poppyseed1017

Hmmm. Sorry, but I smell a rat. Possibly two rats.

exc1tedforbaby1

I had found messages on his fb, that he left logged on my computer, and I asked her. The more this woman tries to convince me, the more she trips her self up with lies. I would of so much rather actually walked in on him doing something. Can't deny that.. And I don't think I'm willing to tear up this family for a 'who knows' but his phone and car will be staying in my name.. Never know.